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Is this girl trying to give me signals?

Ok here's the situation. I work at loss prevention (uniformed security) at a store as my part time job. There is a girl there who has recently started (she's working in clothing)and I'm trying to figure out if she dropping hints. Here are the things that make me wonder:

1) When I am walking the store she will always say hi to me, even if I am several paces away and walking away from her she will call me by name in hi "happy" tone of voice. I have not seen her do this with other employees.

2) When she is away from the other co-workers she tries to have more drawn out conversations with me. She talks to other employees too though. I am currently in a relationship but having some troubles (working really hard at them) She has asked me on a couple of different occasions (out of the blue I might add) how my relationship is going.

3) During our evening meetings she has come up to me and stood close (within a foot) to me on occasion.

4) She has ran up to me on a few occasions (sometimes half way across clothing) asking me what she can do for us (loss prevention). They are usually very general and unimportant questions.

5) I have left he messages on facebook (just general whats up stuff nothing bad or disloyal i do this with other employees too) but she almost never responds. She's never on there much anyway.

I'm only asking this because I need to know if this is an issue I need to address with her because I'm in a relationship and working very hard at making it work. Also our policy does not allow me to hang out with anyone (let alone date) outside of my department. I don't think she is trying to find out any of our "secrets." I just need to know if this is an issue I need to address. Any input would be appreciated.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    I think so... I'm not positive though but these are the first signs. If you need more feel free to message me and i'd be glad to help. Don't bring it up. Girls will sometimes deny when you ask so don't just believe it first but most likely YES

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