Modest ladies: What is wrong with this picture?

This is a phase every girl goes through. Because you did not go through it simply shows that you are unusual, or you have blocked it out. I bet you did do something at that age like everyone else. Young girls are very vulnerable, so you are experiencing a protective feeling toward them because you know the nature of men, and they do not

Psychologically, a girl will want love and adoration, and finds that acting sexually for these things is a way to express that need.

At the same time, young men will want sex but will act out love to gain his goals.

modesty is overrated. Really now life is short and anyone over 30 can tell you your body changes teenaged years are the years to wear the bikinis. Although I will say as women even young women we need to learn to love ourselves more and accept ourselves for what we are.This does not mean that we need to cover ourselves and be ashamed of our beauty. If anything we need to embrace our natural beauty, but this doesn't mean that we should cover it up and keep it a secret. There is nothing wrong with showing some skin if you have the confidence to back it up! At this point in my life I have confidence and maturity, when I was a child I did not. When I now see a child that has that confidence I applaud her!!!!

I've never asked the question of myself. My mother put a bikini on me when I was 4, I've worn one to the beach and pools ever since. I like to sunbath, my mother did it, my older sister did it so I acquired the behaviour. But by the same token I have found it relaxing to go to the beach lay out a towel and spend the afternoon reading a book. As for the modesty thing when you have 5,000 girls on the beach and 4,000 of them are in bikinis it's not really being immodest. It's like when you're standing out in a football stadium in your drill team uniform with 95 other girls. The only person who actually see's you is your parents,

I am a father and this would worry me if I did not have a good wife that worries about these things for me.

My girls are fine. This is just a teenager thing. The girls see TV and their friends and just go nuts for a while. It is a phase. For mine at least.

Having parents that can set a good example and don't let the kids go crazy is a good idea.

Some people never grow out of it, I guess.

My thoughts are every new generation is fed a barrage of images that would not have been unimaginable for the previous generation.

They are being sold a norm.

Our culture encourages children to behave in a provocative way. This is sad for boys and for girls since childhood is so short and innocence is so fleeting.

Girls are trying to have sex appeal at younger and younger ages. It's usually a phase, but if It's a real problem their parents shouldn't just buy them whatever they want...

modesty does wonders for femininity and womanhood.

america is whoredom, plain and simple.