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My mom bought my sister a house. Should this make me angry?

My brother in law lost his job and so my mom stepped in and bought them a house. My brother in law got a new job in a short time frame and they are doing fine money wise.

My other adopted brother lost his job and is divorced and may lose full custody of his children without a job. My mom will not offer him anything to help him.

I think my mom just likes my sister better than my brother, but she says it's because my sister is a good person and my brother is not. My sister goes to church and my adopted brother doesn't and smokes cigarettes.

My mom also has bought my sister cars, paid for college, etc. , but has done nothing of the kind for anyone else.

My mom often talks about taking her kids out of the will that don't please her. And, i think my sister will end up being the only one in it out of 8 kids. So far there are two kids on the not in will list.

Should this kind of stuff bother me? It doesn't seem fair to me!

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    No it shouldn't bother you.

    You should be happy, that you won't have to be in debt with her.

    There's nothing better in the world than taking care of your own problems, and paying your own way.

    So let her pay your sisters way. It's not helping your sister any. It's only setting her back.

    You want to move forward.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • 10 years ago

    1- yes its wrong and yes it "should" bother you

    2- however we both know that letting it bother you isnt going to fix anything. unlike my situation with my girl, there really is NOTHING you can do about this. talking to her wont work- im assuming shes the type of person whos extermely opinionated, and talking to her may in her eyes be "manipulation" or a conspiracy, and it may piss her off even more (not in your favor).

    So my best advice is just to talk to your bro, see if he'll go to church and quit smoking (itd be good for him to quit), and all that.

    Source(s): http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201110... you answered my Q but anybody else who wants to help a bro out with his hoe girlfriend, go right ahead!
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    1. just because your adopted brother smokes cigerettes doesn't make him a bad person.

    From the what i just read i think she's being unfair.

    My mother bought all 4 kids (except me, i bought my own) their own fully paid houses, and cars.

    She kept it equal

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  • 10 years ago

    Should this kind of stuff bother me?

    >> NO not at all! Just be a better parent if and when it's your turn!

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    yes

    and

    don't forget

    if people don't like the will and the way it is written ?

    they can protest it

    what that means is that no one gets anything until it is decided

    so they might end up getting something because otherwise no one will get anything

    peace

  • 10 years ago

    hmm. it isn't. but if you want to keep the peace, i suggest you go about this calmly.

    Source(s): exp.
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