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How to deal with my brother's girlfriend?

Ok my brother and his girlfriend have been going out nearly 4 years . I like the girl, she is fine . But since summer started i'v noticed she has been here EVERY day. The two of them do nothing. The just seem to watch telly all day and eat all our food. they seem to have no appreciation for money. Money is tight enough as it is and my parents getting food for 5 children living at home is hard enough without feeding another person .They dont even try to get jobs . And I thought when they went back to college she would be here alot less but the two of them are living at home except she is pratically living at our house now . I feel i have no comfort in my own home with her there all the time . For example yesterday i came home from school early because i felt terrible and there she was i felt i couldnt relax. They do not clean up after themselves leaving the place a mess and do not give anyone any space. My two sisters and other brother feels the same . And my parents notice the extra money being spent on food . what should i do?

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  • 10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Talk to your parents about it. Tell them it makes you, and others, uncomfortable. They should know enough to limit how many days per week she is there. Hell, I have to do that with my bf even though I'm a fricken adult and so is my sister (whom I live with.) But she still has to enact a 3 day per week rule, and I respect it when she is home. Even though it's my apartment, and I pay for it and the bills

    Sooo If I can do it, they can do it

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    10 years ago

    ok with all due respect...kick her the **** out!!!! why should anyone put more bearing on ur mother or even urself. ur brother should know better than to bring her everyday....she doesn't seem to respect herself or her surroundings. not sure why ur saying "she's fine"

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