Do i have to lend her money for the 10th time, without paying me back since the first time?

You don't have to lend anyone money. Just say NO!!.

If someone don't pay you back the first or second time you lend them money, don't ever expect them to pay you back anytime in the future.

Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me!!

Take care

off course you do. you loaned 1-9 times expecting nothing make it a nice round 10. Friends never borrow or lend to friends

Nope after the first u stop lending money! my cousin still owes me 550! still waiting on it!

We have no idea what or who you're talking about.

But you never *have* to lend money to anyone. If you don't want to lend anything to her, then don't.

Uhh...no. If she didn't pay you the other 9 times what makes you think she's going to pay you now?