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What is wrong with me?
ok so i get my associates in may. I don't care..accomplishment??? meh it's not really...i'm 28 and barely getting it and then oh yes...i live at home with my daddy haha....when i start making friends... its cool for awhile but i don't relate to anyone. i've done this for long time now. the whole making new friends then not really finding a...'bond' whatever it is, common ground. Even if there is some interest there, its always never enough.. the friendships i make never get deep enough to stick i guess. on top of that, i find myself very shallow. I don't hit on many women but the ones i do hit on are usually out of my league, i think. the ones i find interested in me are insanely hideous and yea no thx i rather whack it...can i say that on here? :), i kinda already knew i was ugly...anyway i get to spend my xmas with only 1 person, my dad. of course his gf is going to come over etc etc with a couple others of her family..not really interested. they arent really friends of mine or you know, i don't care. i do productive things you know but all loner stuff....rock climbing..its actually bouldering cause you need 2 ppl to climb rocks...belaying..etc... i workout and do cardio and hike etc so im not all some creep in the basement of his parents house...no no im a creep on a rock with some dumb bells and running shoes etc...haha anyway yea im so socially retarded, did i mention that...all i want is like 1 person to connect with. man or woman platonic.i love myself enough to not really need a sexual relationship..see now thats weird also what the **** is wrong with me??
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- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
it's alright man. some people grow different aspects of their life before others and different people enjoy different things in life. I know I'm not a stunning man myself but there is more to a man than his looks.. And everyone is physically attractive in their own way.
anyways... I don't think anything is wrong with you that would make you totally abnormal or anything. If you feel that you have something wrong with you, try therapy maybe you could get some help.
If you would like to meet more girls who are up to your standards you could get access to a bigger selection in a short period of time by browsing a free dating website. I've had great luck with plentyoffish.com it can take time to meet a decent person but maybe it's worth it
anyway just think about your goals, if you are meeting your realistic goals or working toward most/all of them then how is there something wrong with you?
The only thing I see is that you want more people in your life close to you. So try inviting people for lunch or to do some seasonal thing like a parade or fireworks or Halloween scary place etc...
Show that you are interested in getting to know them more and some of them might get closer to you. Broaden your social opportunities by getting involved in more things. I personally work with a jillion people so I get to have opportunities for friendship with alot of people. There is church, the gym, sports, idk the more you get out the more you can meet people and the more interest you show in them the more they might want to reciprocate.
Source(s): life - ?Lv 49 years ago
Nothing. I don't see anything wrong with being a loner and with not really caring about anything.
- 9 years ago
You're 28 and you don't know how to properly capitalize or punctuate sentences?
Thats whats wrong with you..
