Why is taking charge, taking initiative, taking control, being in control a "Masculine" thing? who or what?

yeah it really pisses me off too

Just wait until you get married! Then you will see that it is usually the woman who is runnin **** whether you like it or not. A smart husband won't fight it because you efforts will be futile in the end. It took me many years to realize that lol but I still jab back now and then.

Because taking initiative, control, and maintaining control is symbol of leadership, which carries a lot of responsibility and scrutiny. Since it was on the backs of men that civilization was built, and women chose not to put themselves in danger... these qualities of leadership and responsibility are assigned to men.

Now that the dynamic has changed, and technology has made the modern world far from dangerous in the context of the unknown, now women are crawling out trying to claw their way to the top. lol. my rant humor.

But if you go in any household, usually women are holding the fort down even now while men go out and bring in the bread. Relationships ought to be a partnership, instead they are competition now... don't compete, partner up.

you will find your perfect match which is a woman who does all that. in a relationship there's always one person who calls the shots.

It's not a man thing, anyone of either gender can be that way if they desire.

i guess it was because life and society had always been male dominated

Because men are born to become natural leaders

All the traits you mention above are qualities that every good leader has

You mad?