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Feel lile I'm wasting my time being married. Time to leave or no? What to do?
So tired of just being legally married and not feeling like I'm getting anything out of it. All the DH does is work all day long and on the weekends is either working on a project around the house or going out with his dad buying find off Craigslist. We never even get time to do anything and when we do we still have to have his dad tagging along. I told him how I feel and he pretends to understand but it just stays the same. Only time he's around is when its meal time, bed time or something else he wants. Sick and tired of everything. What's the point of being married when you don't get anything out of it?
The working around the house are projects that don't need to be done just stuff that he makes up that he wants to do.
5 Answers
- ?Lv 79 years ago
Then get ahead of him plan a weekend
Tell him mid-week this is what were doing
So you need to tell dad your busy
If you only do this once a month he will get the message
But don be too hard on him if he works hard
and is doing jobs around the house
it shows he,s committed to his family
- irishmom91562Lv 69 years ago
Time for marriage counseling to determine whether or not the two of you can get back on the same page, or whether your husband prefers acting more married to his Dad than to you. I'm all for close relationships with parents, but when spouse and children suffer, it's time for a marriage counselor to tell the husband to grow up or get off the pot!
- KellyLv 59 years ago
Hey, at least he is working, doing house projects or hanging out with his dad.. Could be a whole lot worse especially if you read other ppl questions (yikes).
You need to step up and PLAN an outing!!!! If there is something that I want to do or go see, I plan it and we go...
- ???Lv 79 years ago
Call your father-in-law and ask if your husband can stay with him for awhile. Tell him you love your husband but he's never there, and you think he'd rather be single, and you don't want to spend the rest of your life married and alone. Maybe his dad will get through to him.
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