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why is my ex still interested in what I do?

Right now he is seeing someone else and things are great with them and they are all cosied up. Yet he still wants me to tell him what I am doing and for me to send him photos of me and what I am up too. All normal stuff.

Its like the spanish inquistion with him. He tells me things that he and his gf are up too and how they spent christmas. I just say yes cool and great, but it still hurts. I do still love him but I do know he is not with me anymore and that time has moved on. There is no way he would come back to me when he is cosied up with this girl. I do not know if they will get engaged or anything. I just don't understand all the questions

Update:

No we do not have kids together, We were friends long before we ever went out. No I know wont be sending him any pictures at all. I have not had contact with him much, but whenever I am online I get the fifth degree and stuff like ;where have you been?' Or ' 'Ha ha so your still alive ha ha!'

and he would say other things.

He also still sends me emotes (non romantic ones ) that he used to do when we were together.and it twinges at my feelings a bit when I see it.

I try to be happy for him and pretend I have moved on, so its not awkward, but everytime I log in, its like questions after questions. and then wanting photographs of what I am doing and what I am up too and anything else I can send him.

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  • T. R.
    Lv 5
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    He may just want pictures to of you so he can show all his friends what y'all did or were doing at the time the picture was taken. I could be wrong but I think he wants to know what you are up to so he also tell everyone. If he doesn't get engaged, he may come back to you. If he does, then there is nothing you can do but move on to the next level. I feel for you. You deserve the best in life. I wish you the best and God Bless You!

  • Kaia
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Why are you still in contact? Do you have children together? If you don't have children together, I don't see any reason why you'd be in contact with him...but that's just me.

    Anyway, when he starts asking questions just say, "You've moved on. I've moved on. What I'm doing is my business." And don't share pictures with him...if they are pics of your kids, great. Otherwise...no.

  • Russ
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    I would tell him that he is with someone else now and "with all due respect, my actions are no longer any concern of yours."

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