Men, How would you feel if your wife/partner went through your phone...?

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and found certain text messages and confronted you about it?

A few days I was arguing with my husband and about some silly stuff that had been bothering me for awhile (before I went through his phone).

So later on we spoke about it and made up, things were fine for a few hours.

Then our daughter was playing with his phone, she handed it to me, to put some games on it for her.

Something told me to look through his texts, I found texts of him talking to his sister about me and my family. Saying some pretty nasty and hurtful things (we've had this kind of problem before, but I never confronted him about).

Well I couldn't hold it in and confronted him about. He really didn't say much, just had his head down the whole time.

The next day I bought it up again, and he kind of brushed it off and changed the subject. I don't understand know how he feeling about this.

How would you feel if your wife did this?  

Any answers are greatly appreciated, thanks in advance.

carmen · Accepted Answer

If you are snooping it can be over looked if you find incriminating things because i think if you find something that is a greater crime than snooping. you have the right to be angry with him. he is avoiding you because people do not like to be confronted when they are wrong. tell him to communicate with you solve your problems or you will leave

John · Answer

Technology is a bi*ch.  It has done more harm than good for relationships.  You have facebook, text messages, and all sorts of other stuff and the significant other can snoop around in and question you about.  Where does privacy fit into all this.  You are owed a little bit in your life.  
Stop going through his stuff. Maybe he needs someone to vent too.  I am sure just as every women does when her husband upsets her she gets on the phone and bad mouths him to everyone she knows.

Anonymous · Answer

I agree with Peggy s there should not be any secrets between both of you. I saw texts on my husbands phone only because he was being so secretive. He ended up leaving me for this other woman that he was texting as he became emotionally attached to this woman. Please be careful as you don't want to be hurt like I'm hurting at the moment!

Fallen Angel · Answer

I think the rule is you get to look at it but if you don't find any cheating materials he gets to divorce you and take the house.  Stop being a snoop.  I love my wife but that right there shows no trust.  You might as well have read his diary and inner thoughts.  It's a betrayal.

PEGGY S · Answer

There should be no secrets between husband and wife.  He is not required to like your parents, just to tolerate them.

C Ross · Answer

I would not mind since i would not have anything on it that she would consider cheating

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