Why do women always say they want a nice guys who treats them right then go do the exact opposite?

Don, first, this is a non politically correct answer. I hate people who are politically correct and enjoy tormenting them with the truth. Anyway, continue reading. Don, I want you to do yourself a favor. For a period of one month, just listen to women, watch how they act, see what they do. In that time, you will likely realize the following.

Women are full of ****. They change their minds every ten seconds yet refuse to admit to themselves much less anyone else, that they just changed their mind or contradicted themselves, no matter how much evidence their is to prove them wrong. Women say what they think is acceptable or correct given the crowd they are in.

Women must be the vicitm. Look, women like the bad boys for a very simply reason. With a bad boy, the girls get to do whatever they want to do, yet they do not have to accept any responsibility. Simply put, if a woman can find a way to absolve herself of responsibility for what takes place and she can put blame on someone else, she will happily suck ten elephant cocks per day. As long as a women has a slight bit of interest in doing something and she can find a way to convince herself and others that she only did it because she was a victim in some manner, you can do anything you want with her. Seriously. I mean, I have had women who would act like a complete fridge to their ex hubby and scream they hated sex, but they happily suck, **** and be a complete whore for me. Why? Because as long as they sucked and ******, I was happy to allow them to play the victim. Plus, I told them straight up that if their pussy fell off, they should lose my number and not contact me again.

Women know that they are just a piece of ***, but they cannot stomach to admit it to themselves. They all want to believe they are a piece of gold. Hey, they have to believe that because they cannot dare admit that if we did not want to **** them, we would simply use them for bait, just like fishing worms. They use sex as a tool, a ploy, yet they will not admit that they are hookers too. They just do it for gifts or rent or cars instead of being more honest and upfront about it. Basically, women have one commodity and they know it, so they use it to their full advantage. Now guys being stupid only helps them continue in this manner of action.

Women are basically mentally derainged. You have heard that anything that bleeds for seven days yet will not die, must be evil. If you thought that was just a joke, you are nuts. Dude, women are simply the most cunning, self serving and treasonase creators on the planet. Doubt me to your parrel.

A woman detests a man who treats them well. Look at it this way. If she dates a toad, then he cannot hold her to account and she cannot be but so much to blame no matter what she does. On the other hand, a man who treats a woman well and treats her with respect and love, is a danger to her. Why? Because when she acts like a **** or whores on him, she is the bad one. This eliminates her ability to be the victim and instead makes her the object of ridicule and disdain. She must accept responsibility for what she did with a good man. Women hate that. So, the bad boy is easier and allows her to be more self serving, all while having fun and doing what she wants and taking no responsibility for it. She can still blame him and come out looking good to others.

That make it a bit plainer for you?

Some girls want nice guys. Some guys like nice girls.

But there is no one-size-fits-all thing. You can't say "All girls are like this" or "All boys are like that", because there aren't absolutes like that.

That said, there ARE girls that like nice guys. Myself, for example, have been with the same nice guy for years, and we don't play those silly games. Some people like the games… us not so much.

I know I've been rambling, but the point is that there are girls that will choose a nice, reliable guy over a spontaneous pot-head. I think the problem is that a lot of the time the nice guys and nice girls are taken, so it seems like the world is full of people who just want to f*ck around. The reality is that there are probably a lot of girls who are what you're looking for and who'd like you and who you'd like. This stuff just requires some patience sometimes.

Some women want the challenge of taking control of guys that are not so nice. Others like the thrill of being bossed around. Most prefer nice guys so youre looking for & picking the wrong women to date.

When given a choice to believe words or actions - more often the actions are going to demonstrate the actual values. There is a degree of reading into them so be very careful that you are not reading into the actions. I have watched dozens of girls do this - there is a consistent inconsistency between words and actions over time. They say that they want nice guys, but they want wild/fun/bad-boys.

I agree with your observations: they say they want nice, but they act like they want anything but nice.

So the question is why. What is the benefit to them. Girls hunger for power but they wrap their entire conception of power around beauty instead of around strength. Guys want power but wrap their conception of it around strength. So how is a girl going to know she has the most power? By being able to have what other girls cannot. Remember that beauty is an entirely relative and socially driven metric. Outside the context of community it has no meaning. Girls in African tribes go for giant earlobes as measure of beauty. Girls in South American tribes put discs in lower lips and giant (like 3-foot long) lips are considered infinite beauty there. So to test her beauty/power she will go for the bad-boy, much like trying to break the most wild of the unbroken stallions, to experience for herself and demonstrate to others that she has it. If she can "own him" or "bend him to her will" or "keep him for herself from other girls" when the other girls would want him, or he might want to not be held - that gives her great sense of satisfaction.

The good-guy, within that framework, is the most worthless commodity in the economy. She wants to make the bad guy into a good guy, but she doesn't want the already good guy. The "good guy" is really the docile old mare that anyone can ride - there is no prestige there. Only a child would want that.

Just goes to show that most girls really are crazy.

Also goes to show that your actions were the exact right ones to have.

How does a man not sell out his integrity (or his soul) to get the girls to want him - that is another long answer. It has to do with waiting till the girls get out of puberty and grow up a bit then (after 24-ish) entering the less feral dating pool.

nah its becuz every women loves a bad boy

Don, you really must stop believing what women say.

women like slut guys when they themselves feel like a slut.............whats to understand...see them for what they are and move on.