Moms Group on Facebook - Rules/Drama starter?

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I started a facebook group for moms. I figured we dont need rules, Since we are all adults. THe only "rule" is we dont accept new members and we dont want drama. The admin in charge, we have done are best to try and keep no drama. We have one member that has been the root to any drama starting we have had. This member is also well liked but several members. With all the members that have came to us and let us know what other members thing some like her,dont like her or really dont care. Her posts end up being gone before all the members see her "true colors". But alot of members are aware of her rudeness. People can disagree, But she takes it to a personal strong dislike level. She has bashed members on her personal page, Which thats her personal page Shes free to do what she wants there. But she has brought her personal attacks into the group. I personally dont like her but I have been fair and until she has a reason to be removed, Which I think the time has come. Our group has been wonderful - the few times there has abeen drama she has been the cause/root of it. Before when she did talk to me, She had such a strong hate towards other moms she has never even met - IMO she tried threatened and scareing me into deleting a member she didnt like. I wouldnt delete the other member, so Im sure she got mad. She told me so many other people will leave the group and start their own group unless I deleted the other member. I wouldnt delete the other member, she did nothing wrong. No one in the group came to me saying they didnt like the other member except this "drama starter member". Where now I have had ALOT of members come to me saying "drama starter member" is too rude and needs to go. Where just cuz members dont like one another we cant do anything but she has been the center of the drama so I think its time for her to go. ALso Im sure some of the members that "follow" her may be mad so I need to prepare for their questions/remarks about why shes gone. Some may not have noticed or seen the posts but I can explain that if they would like.

Update:

oh geeze, the group as a whole aggreed no new members...We have shared our numbers and addresses with one another in the gorup...and a new member who could be anyone else would have access to that info. So the group as a whole decided no new members

LoveMyMommyLife · Accepted Answer

Lol if you ask me, You are the one who started all the drama in the first place
"We don't accept new members" aww Iim not allowed in your tree house?
Your "take it or leave it" dictator attitude is unpleasant. Do her the favour and remove her.
I'm sure she has better things to do

? · Answer

Just delete her... You sound like you like all the drama or you would've deleted her a long time ago! And who cares who else is mad? Maybe you care too much what others think!! And you don't accept new members?!! Well, since you don't accept new members, then why are you asking us "non members" for advice?

If you don't accept new members, then that's fine, it's your group. I'm just implying that you ask your "members" for advice. And as the president of the group, you should have better leadership skills. The principle of a school is not going to go on Yahoo and ask for advice on running his or her school. And if the majority of the ppl don't care for her, and she's rude, then she needs to go. You're not going to be able to please everyone. If you ask me, your non drama group sounds like it's full of drama to me.

? · Answer

Sounds like nothing more than a high school clique. While yes, she shouldn't have done what she did, you're continuing the drama by keeping her there. Just delete her and move on. If they follow her, who cares? It's FACEBOOK, not your life-I hope. If it is, you have serious issues. And if they're bashing you like little cyber bullies then block them and report them to Facebook.

As for your new members thing: maybe if you took that off the group and only gave it to those you trust through messaging, you wouldn't have that problem. You're a mother, stop acting like a fifteen year old girl.

LOLeah · Answer

Sorry, but a MOM group on Facebook with only one rule of "No drama!" sounds like a huge oxymoronic mess. Simply not possible, as I'm sure you can see now. Either take the bad in with the good or give up on the whole endeavor.

watkin · Answer

not customary that they do it to a minimum of one yet another. i ought to understand in the event that they communicate grimy approximately an actor or action picture that they take excitement in yet unlike lesbo mom stuff. yet you stated you're area of a strange mom team-so i can work out the place the strange is presented in...

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