Is my daughter being abused!?

you described psychological reaction to rape to smallest point...

if she speak with you and more importantly - trust you, try to speak with her assure her that if anything happened, you are still her mother and still behind her, then suggest if any criminal act happen, that you should go to the police and let them handle the matter. if she refuses to go to the police, then:

go with your daughter to psychiatrist/psychologist specialising in that matter and have her examined/interviewed without you being present.

First decrease out visitation with the mum. i could call the mum and tell her precisely why you're doing this. call infants and little ones, have her examined a a physician besides as communicate over with a counselor coach at those styles of behavioral issues. unravel this, get this toddler the help she desires if she has experienced something inappropriatee so as that she will advance in to a common little woman without unusual behaviors and emotions. AND press rates on the guy(s) if anybody has harmed her and don't provide up till the fullest quantity of the regulation is used on those man or woman(s).

You have to talk to her about that.

She's most likely depressed from the past, and something for sure is happening now.

Talk to her gently.

Tell her how much you love her and she can tell you anything.

And try to get her to tell you.

Obviously somethings wrong, but yahoo can't answer what. You have to talk to her and to her abusive father, and figure out what is going on for your daughters sake.

Goodluck. I really hope she's okay

I hate to say this but her problem seems to be her parents. If you are seeking answers here than you clearly haven't sought professional help for her. All of the things you've described are red flags. Instead of asking what is wrong you need to be looking at ways to make things right. If she is this troubled your husband being verbally abusive is no different than being physically. i will keep your family in my prayers.

She is abused no question! Talk to her or she'll get even worse than she is, the poor girl is hurt!! She must feel like no one cares about her tell her that you sit down and talk to her!

I only read the first line !

"verbally abusive father that unfortunatey still is living with us"

um... yessss

I would sit down with her and talk to her and ask if anything else bad has happened