How to cope with not having children...I need advice urgently...?

As a man yes we get that pang as well--why don't you adopt? There are many children out there looking for good parents.

I never wanted kids in life. I never had that "pang" your speaking of....so it's hard to understand WHY you would want a child.

I know I'll get alot of thumbs down from other women but the truth is they become very unappreciative the older they get. Ungrateful for all you do for them and how through the years you will sacrifice for them but they don't appreciate it. They treat you like an ATM machine once they reach adulthood. Become career college students and drain your bank account. I see all my husband does for his 2 kids from his first marriage and I can totally see why I never had that "pang" because I would hate to think my own kid would be like they are.

They were good kids when they were young as children but once they became teenagers .....they became this way. But I love my husband with all my heart.....so I put up with it.

Now it's Spring Break and I am sure they won't pay attention to all the bills at their home and we will be stuck with them - again emptying out our bank account. It's hard to not be sour with them because they don't care.

Don't feel bad not having kids ok? Don't.