i hate my dads new girlfriend?

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My parents got a divorce last summer and today I met my dads new gf in a restaurant.I dont like her she was stuck up and rude, Every 10mins she kept asking me without my dad seeing was why are you upset?, she asked my dad why am i upset to? and when someone keeps asking you why are u upset you start to get upset cause it gets annoying,all i was doing was texting. I went to the bathrooms crying she didnt see, i was crying because i couldnt imagine seeing her beside me dad instead of my mom. She came into the bathrooms and told me she was sorry she upset me, and that im 15 and she is gna treat me like an adult not a child and she is gna treat me like how she would treat her daughter if she was acting the way i was..That really made me angry; i only knew her 2 mins and she was already saying she is gna treat me like her own child. She said it in a rude way.My dad started giving out to me for being a bit rude to her but i wasnt i answered her politely when she talked to me i smiled at her even though inside i was upset; I dont like her she is ignorant; When my dad was there all she did was talk to me, it was an act. There is a party in a couple of weeks and she is going and i dont wanna go cause she is going; how do i tell my dad why im not going; i dont wanna tell him i dont like her but then again i wanna tell him before they get serious..

Update:

please stop saying im the problem; if you seen the way she carried herself it was stuck up and snobby, My sister feels the exact same way as me...

? · Accepted Answer

Dispose of her :P
Just playing, please don't do that
I'd give her a chance. I know divorce is hard (my parents are going through one too) but you just met her and she makes your dad happy. You could be wrong about her and it could work out :/ But if not I would tell you dad how you feel about her..

Indie · Answer

"she was stuck up and rude" "she was sorry she upset me"

she kept asking why you were upset and if you were okay, so rude.

dont be so selfish, you think she made her mind up on you in 2 minutes, when you already decided she is stuck up, rude, ignorant and wants to replace your mother in the same amount of time. 
go ahead, tell your dad you dont want him to be in a happy stable relationship because you dont like her, cause your opinion is the only one that matters.

your 15 and you're acting like this? grow up.

its probably called good posture. still no excuse to judge her on the way she walks and again, if your dad likes her butt out.

? · Answer

Maybe you're the problem. You don't want her to be with your dad because you want your mom and dad to be together. Well you should give her a chance first before judging her.

Natasha · Answer

well just say you dont wanna g to this party ,,, and if he asks y.. just say i dont wanna be around her i dont like her .. if you wanna go then go but i wont and leave it there.... he will understand you dont liek her when he sees that you are distancing yourself from him..  i get it its hard... by mom is a nut job when it come to this crap you shoudl see the guys she brings home.. they are all sooooooooooooo barf lol.. but also remember that yoru dad is onlly human its not like they are getting married tomarrow?!  its dating right..?    but get to understand her a biot more b4 u decide... but if yu have already made up  your mind then go right ahead and say it dont be shy im not lol

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