I am dating a girl who has a possesive boyfriend, Can he read what I say to her on facebook?d?

Her boyfriend sounds like he is a guy with a short fuse.

You and her are playing a game with him. What she needs to do is stop this game or break up with the boyfriend, the 3rd option is replace her hard drive and destroy the old one.

What you are talking about is business that should be done in private not on a machine that makes information accessable to everyone in the world.

This here is a love sandwhich, she likes being the ham.

There are definitely ways for him to see them, and she could even show them to him. Also he just has to ask her to see her Facebook; her saying no will make him immediately suspicious.

But the bigger question is WHY hasn't this girl left her boyfriend, if he's such a douchebag and an obnoxious jerk? That seems to be a red flag right there.

If I were you honestly I would stop talking to this girl until she makes a decision - him or you. She could be just using you, sorry to say.

From what I have seen, often people in her position will eventually show them everything anyway, even in the desperate attempt yo get them to change. And that could include ALL your details. doesn't matter much whether you can "take him" if he sends a few large pals round to deal with you. Or decides to torch your home in the middle of the night.

She's playing you like a chump... for getting you going and not breaking it off with him.