Grandparents out there!!?

I'm just asking for some views on some questions I have;

1- What is more important to you, you becoming a Grandparent OR your child becoming a Parent?

2- Did you involve your parents and inlaws as much as you want to be involved?

3- Did you parents/inlaws spend every birthday and Christmas with you or did you like to have it just your own little family?

4- Did you do as much for your childrens Grandparents i.e pictures and drawings constant updates as you expect now?

5- Can you sit back and watch your children parent thier children and understand the Mothers need to mother her children regardless of you begin around OR do you believe that when you are there it's your time to do everything and she should just sit back and let you?

6- Do you now understand your parents heartbreak when you don't see your Grandchildren as often as you would like?

I am a Mother of soon to be 3 and just want to have a little more understanding on the subject.

Thank you