Why are certain men so hypocritical when it comes to sex?

it's an old fashioned view on sex that still hasn't disappeared yet unfortunately. If you want to wait til you know someone well/are in love/are married before having sex, that's great. if you just want do what feels right/is fun, then go for it. the problem is, as you said, holding others to different standards than themself, yes, it is hypocritical. they can make up whatever excuse they want about it, but in the end, it's just 2 people making the same decision to do something fun together, it's immature to say the other person did something wrong but you didn't.

The slut/stud double known would partially exist because of the fact of a few cultural thought that this is much less desirable for women to be promiscuous than adult men. yet from journey i for my section have got here upon that the vast majority of the double known comes from a thought that this is a challenge for adult men to get laid, and is uncomplicated for women to get laid. Such that. a woman having fairly some intercourse is uncomplicated and is in simple terms giving it away (and individuals do no longer see this as an beautiful high quality), a guy having quite some intercourse on the different hand is stunning because of the fact there's a thought that he's earning it, that it fairly is a few form of fulfillment to have intercourse with this many women. And so a guy having quite some intercourse is hailed using this thought of it being an accomplishment. a woman having quite some intercourse is seen as no longer valuing herself notably adequate by using the thought of her giving it away so truthfully.

Welcome to the society in which we live. Men are manly when they wake up in bed with 4 girls on top of him and those 4 girls are considered the scum of society.

Some people have looked past this corrupted view of morality and realized that the true men are modest they respect women and are virgins until marriage and a woman of worth would respect herself, dress modestly and wait till marriage to have sex.

Took a change in religious views for me to realize this ^.^

there could be two reasons .. perhaps they are idiots who yes are hypocrites who want to marry virgins but want to have sex as much as possible , or perhaps the person who would tell you ( or anyone ) something like that its just making excuses because he doesn't really like you ( or the person they had sex with ) , so they are trying to make look the other person bad , instead of admitting than all they wanted was sex but nothing more ..

For women, a relationship is the ultimate goal. For men, sex is the ultimate goal. Men don't worry about her being easy and simply don't care. Women try to stave men off from having sex with them cuz they are worried about losing our respect. We look for relationships too but men, unlike women, think sex isn't all that emotional. Not all the time, but a lot of the time sex is a separate entity to us. Women look to solve the entire puzzle while men just play with the pieces.

Its simple....ANY and yes I mean ANY women can get sex on a first date if she chooses, yet its incredibly hard for the man. This can be in any situation, get a good looking girl to ask 10 random guys for sex, probably 8 out of 10 would say yes, reverse and have a good looking guy ask 10 random girls for sex and he may get 1 or 2. therefore a girl that puts out on a first date is considered easy, yet a guy who gets sex on the first date is considered lucky.

Wait, so if we went out once and banged, and I found that to be easy, boring, and not worth the challenge of trying again, I'm supposed to be self-reflective about that? I didn't date a bunch of women to try and figure myself out. I was looking for a cool girl. I didn't subtract points for first date sex, but it's not a plus, either. Maybe you're not very likeable in general. Try working on not twisting logic to justify your failures in relationships. I mean, I assume you're talking about yourself. I don't know.

Have sex when you both want it. If you agree to it it's the same as initiating it in my oppinion

It's always been that way. A man who sleeps around is considered a "Romeo" and experienced. A woman who sleeps around is called a slut. I don't understand it either

Just be a respectful and decent woman and don't give him sex until he shows commitment.

Men are all jerks, don't give in.