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What should i do? Please read !?

We dont really have a lot of money laying around.

I'm 4 months pregnant with our 1st child

My fiance literally want to either off work or go home after 4 hr from work every week. ( we work the same company and make decent money with over time hour ) when i try to stay or if i'm so tired i will make sure i have enough 8 or more hours a day.

He is irresponsibility, i see that, we argue but not much anything change.

Now he wants to buy a motorcycle. Actually every summer he wants to get a bike.

There will be no garage space for a bike

We will spend the money with we 've been saving for emergency stuff on the bike and its insurance...

I already tress with the new role and responsibility i will have to do when the baby arrives. I feel like he helps me nothing but tress me out some more with the financial problem. Am i too strict about letting he get a bike or i have the right to stop him? He makes about 200$/ week over me so he thinks he can off when he wants. We put our money together in the same account and some for saving.

Any answer will help. Thanks

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    you are right

    your life will change because of the baby

    he needs to think about what would happen if he got hurt on the back

    that extra money he makes over you ? it needs to go to the baby

    the baby comes first now

    above all

    peace

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Unfortunately, this has happened thousands of times before.

    From what I have seen, guys like this do not grow up. I hope he does for you and the baby. I would wait to get the bike, but it sounds like he will get it no matter what. It is a bad move in my opinion.

    Good Luck !!

    Source(s): 3 million years of evolution.
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