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I'm turning into a bad rebellious kid?

I'm 14. I've smoked, I drink, i've had sex one time. My parents told me not to date this guy, & I date him for 3 months. I talk to pot heads & disobey my parents all the time. This year, I've turned bad...I used to be a good kid. I don't really want to change....but, is everything that I'm doing normal?? & I want to move out. & I want to party! Is all this normal for a 14 year old? My parents already think I'm on the "wrong path"...does anyone have any advice?

-CaliforniaBabe<3

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    i'm 14, I've had sex like 20 times, i've dated lots of guys my parents didnt approve of, i want to move out top. ive smoked many times but its not a habit, and i rarely drink. this will pass, trust me when ur 14 everything is a phase that u do it will pass by the time ur 20 at the longwst, just stay in highschool and go to collehge trust me in not kidding. otherwise u'll end up in a homeless shelter i have a lot of people i know in homeless shelters even some of my friends who r only 15

  • 9 years ago

    I am the same age as you. I have done 1 of those things and I regret it entirely. I wish you could understand what I am saying and I don't know if u will, but please think before you choose a bad choice again. Actually, now that I think of it I have done 2 of those things 1 is disobeyed my parents which I have no reason to, they give me a lot of stuff and love me. That is a lot to ask for! But, back to the topic. I am sitting here writing this because I have been there and if someone had told me I was going down the WAY wrong path and was doing something totally illegal which could put me IN JAIL and my life over (if you smoke weed, you risk everything in life, a good job, going to collage, and anything that would be what I consider "a good dream" so example- a big house, and a luxurious life.) I would have stopped a lot sooner. Anyways I hope you think about this and relize that to smoke, and drink, and have sex, it is a BAD choice because it's a waste of everything and yes I have smoked, but I still believe that going to collage, and getting a job of MY choice it still my goal in life and yes I strayed from the path but It is possible to get back on the path also in someway shape or form tell you parents about this, I know parents do not get EVERYTHING we are going through but they get most of it because they have been here to talk to them about what you wrote :) I hope this helped! Best of luck!

    Source(s): Experience
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    yeah listen to your parents you are on the ''wrong path'' this is why: you smoke, you drink, you ALREADY had fjdkjd, you disobey your parents all the time. Maybe your parents should also take more time explaining things to you however, you should also know these things.....and nowdays almost eveyone is on the wrong path too so many people would consider that normal but.....i dont really know about that..... 0_o Your parents pretty much give up cuz they see its useless to keep trying to help you.......thats why they dont explain....

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    properly, you're on the age the place you do no longer likely evaluate outcomes. rather, you're searching for for education, and your mothers and fathers are particularly dropping the ball. so some distance as abstinence is going, it particularly is a robust thought, yet no longer as a results of sin thought. you may get knocked up or worse - %. up a sexually transmitted disease that isn't circulate away. in case you think of it particularly is exciting to trash somebody's place, then you particularly would desire to look interior the mirror slightly and are available to a style in case you think of it would be ok for somebody to circulate into your place and do the comparable. in case you get capture, you would be procuring an prolonged time, financially and with a criminal checklist that isn't aid you lots in existence. on account which you're so youthful, you do no longer likely see issues as being as outright stupid as they are certainly. yet lower back, you are able to in case you % to. think of roughly what style of track you have been listening to some years in the past. think of roughly what you theory become cool 5 years in the past. Are those issues nevertheless cool? As you advance, you alter with the understanding you get. do no longer do issues which you already know are incorrect only as a results of fact it would desire to be exciting. you will pee your pants while the police look, or once you may desire to stand in front of a choose. Or once you may desire to come to a style approximately aborting the toddler you are able to no longer have or giving it up for adoption. existence isn't approximately having exciting at persons's cost. you're able to do dissimilar good stuff with out being an fool. and the style you're attracted to idiotic people now will exchange as you advance slightly older. you will look lower back (as all of us have carried out formerly you) and say "Wow, i become particularly being an a**hollow." If there particularly wasn't a the following day, you're recommendations-set does no longer be so undesirable. yet there's a the following day, and you'd be screwed hard in case you shrink to rubble too plenty right this moment. i do no longer care approximately faith or faith or any of that stuff. while i become your age, i had to be a priest. Now, i'm an atheist. do no longer seek for god to manage your judgements - make up you're very own recommendations. you may properly be youthful, yet you're actually not dumb. you already know what you're doing and you already know the place the line is. have exciting, yet do no longer go that line. i'm no longer telling you something you do no longer already understand...

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You shouldn't being having sex when your 14 that's illegal .... just to tell you are on the wrong path.. try stop drinking and smoking that wud be the best start .. your parents are right you should change .. if i did what you did i wud kicked out seriously >_< lol

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I don't think your turning into a rebellious kid, your going through what most teenagers go through , just don't let it go to far think about what you do before You do it,

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Yes you are but wanting to party is part of growin up.

  • 9 years ago

    Yes. And I would have to put you through that show beyond scared straight... They put you in jail to scare you straight. Your *** would would be mine....

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