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What to do with unexpected love?
I met this girl in college a couple months ago, and wow. I've been single for three years, but I haven't felt this way in ten. We get along soooo well, and I love everything about her so far. But I am hesitant to get into a relationship with anyone because I've been cheated on and I don't want to fail at love again. My real concern is that I may be over analyzing our potential for longectivity by looking for things that may cause problems. First of all there's the age difference. She is 21 and I am 27. Five years, four months and fifteen days. Then there's the fact that she's moving an hour away this fall for school. One hour - not so bad. But here is what worries me most: she's kind of average looking and I hardly feel any kind of physical attraction toward her. Not that I look like a Justin Beaver, but I worry that she won't always be pretty enough to keep my interest. Im just trying to be realistic here, please don't assume I'm a shallow jerk. Really though, I am falling hard for her personality and she IS pretty, just not what I am used to. We've been on one date; doing a second tomorrow and I can't wait. I cant sleep. I can't think of anything but her. I just want to know if anyone who has been here can give me some direction. The last thing I want to do is hurt her or waste our time. What are my chances of having a lasting relationship with this girl (assuming that's what she wants too). Gosh she is lovely...
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- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
If you don't even try the chances of having a lasting relationship with this girl = 0.
If you try.... No one can know what will happen. But you won't have to walk around for the rest of your life and think 'What if?'
- Anonymous9 years ago
1) The hour distance is going to kills things.
2) She is going to be around LOTS of other guys at college.
3) You have only been on ONE date!
If you like her, go on 2 or 3 more dates and see how it goes. Don't hold your breath because between the distance and her being around more available guys, this is likely going to fizzle. Consider the next 2 dates as practice for the next girl you go out with.
- Anonymous9 years ago
there is no love that kind of thing you think. period