Wedding ring question? Are we wrong?

There's never anything wrong with living your life how you want to live it, as long as it's not hurting someone else. And in this case, the man you love is on board with this idea, so there's nothing wrong with it at all. Always remember--do what makes you happy. Nobody ever laid on their death bed, looking back, thinking, "Gee, I wish I'd lived my life according to what other people think". Haha. Congratulations, by the way!!

I do not consider that there fairly is such a factor as success, good or dangerous. It is simply effortless in charge when matters don't go our way or to purpose with when they do. As long as you will not have a poor feeling towards the ring knowing where it's coming from, it's utterly first-class. Just when you consider that that marriage failed to work, it does not imply the ring is cursed. It can be higher the ring be used for what it is meant for than sitting in anybody's drawer or in a pawn keep someplace.

This is your wedding, your marriage, and your ring--not your mom's! Since this is the solution you and your fiance are happy with, I think you should go with it and not give it a second thought. Hopefully now that your mom has given her opinion once, she will kindly butt out, but if she doesn't there are tactful ways to get her to butt out.

I agree with you, your fiance and your sister that it's a great idea to recycle the old ring. You already like the ring quite a bit, and this saves your fiance quite a bit of money that you both will now have to buy a house or travel, etc.

Well, it is wrong according to your mother. But is it wrong according to you? You are a grown woman now, taking on the responsibility of marriage. Come ti your own decision whether it is right or wrong. I personally believe a ring is a ring. What is more important is the love, commitment, and dedication you share. The ring will not make or break a marriage. Trust will.

I don't see where it's anyone's business but yours. You've done what you wanted with the ring, are comfortable with the choice, and you'll be the one wearing it.

If it were me I'd keep the details to myself from now on - "wrong" is only in the eyes of the beholder. Someone who wants to find a problem always will.

Why on earth should it be wrong? There's never anything wrong in how people choose to arrange their weddings or how they want their rings. As long as you both are in agreement of this, then it is alright! Don't listen to your mother.

There is only one thing wrong here. Your mother.