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Relationship question for parents?

Kind of awkward question but just wondering how often on average y'all are having sex with your partner and if you're having any oral sex at all? My husband and I used to do it a lot more but now we've got five kids and we're both so busy we haven't had sex in 3 weeks and haven't had oral sex since I don't know when...

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  • 9 years ago
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    We have sex at least once a week, either on a Friday or Saturday night when my husband doesn't have to get up at 3:30am for work. Preferably both of those nights and *maybe* a week night in between! (Like tonight...that was a rarity.) Oral sex is pretty common...we have it more often than not, especially since I got pregnant. I am 28 weeks along with #3 and tonight I realized that I am just getting too big and need to find a new position that works.

    It hasn't always been like that though. We conceived our daughter the first time we were intimate and only had sex a handful of times during the entire pregnancy --> 6 months postpartum. Between stress of an unplanned pregnancy/new baby, him losing his job, being broke, etc. it just wasn't in the agenda. Luckily that is behind us now.

  • mcally
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    My husband and I have 3 kids and we average about 2-3 times a week, including oral.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    3-4 times a week. It could be 5 depending on how we are feeling. It is never more than 5 and never less than 2. 3-4 is our average though.

    We have a 9 month old so it is a little difficult. We sure do take advantage of every time he goes to sleep.

    Oral is done more than intercourse in my house.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    We have 2 kids and we have sex about 4 times a week. It obviously depends on other things as well but it is usually 4. I am including all forms of sex.

    3 weeks is a long time. Don't the kids go to sleep?

    I sure do thank god for sports practices. 3-5 hours and no children is a good time in my house.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    I would guess we average twice a week. No, it's not what it used to be before 3 kids, but my husband works an overnight shift and some long hours, so sometimes I'm sleeping alone. As for oral, yes we do it, usually as foreplay.

  • LOLeah
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Well, we only have 1 child and are currently trying to conceive our second, so the sex has been pretty regular lately. At least 3 times a week.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Yes we do oral, and our "normal" average is 3x a week. Sometimes he's working a lot and exhausted so it will only be once or twice, sometimes we're horn balls and it becomes four times. It varies :)

    I have a newborn though so unfortunately no sex for me...

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