What I should do? What's going to happen? I wanted to talk about us and now it is a huge fight.?

We've been seeing each other 3 months. We're both seperated and getting divorced. She's getting divorce in August and I'm getting divorced in October. I had alot of trouble with my estranged wife about 1 month into our relationship. She found out I was seeing someone else and was trying hard to get me back, After she moved in with another guy and caused me all kinds of financial problems and emotional distress. It got to the point where she threatened my girlfriend and attacked me. I got a restraining order, and pressed charges, but reluctantly, and in the meantime, my girlfriend flipped out and almost broke uo with me over it twice. Then I had my bank accounts garnished because I saw sued over my ex and her kids trashing the house re rented when I wasn't there, and I had my bank accounts garnished and had to declare bankruptsy.

All that has been pretty much quiet and settled for about a month, but I'm still having a rough time financially because I owe about 3000 in back student loans and owe the IRS about $4000 because my ex won't let me claim her son on my taxes. But otherwise things have been quiet. She posted on facebook at the beginning of last week how happy she was with our relationship, and everything was going great between us,

My girlfriend seems to allude a lot to me moving in, but it's always in the future tense. I'm not ready to move in now, but I was feeling insecure and I asked her on Monday what she thought about us. She said something like well, I don't know where our relationship is going because I don't want you to move in and you're not ready to move in. I said I didn't say anything about moving in, but why don't you want me to move in? She said she didn't feel sure about me, she said she's felt sure right away in the past about other guys but it never worked out, so maybe that's a good thing that she's not sure. She said it's a big comittment, and she's not ready to make that kind of comittment. She said I'm not sure you're the one. and asked me am I sure she's the one. I said I think I am, I was, I mean I love you, That's pretty much where it ended but my feelings were hurt.

The next morning I said she wasn't exactly making me feel secure about our relationship, and that I'm still upset about it. She said we'll talk later about it. But at noon she called me at work crying and said that her house was up for auction for back taxes because the mortgage company didn't pay her taxes. I told her I'd come home to be with her and that I'd pay the taxes if necessary. By the time I talked to her again, the bank had said thay would over-night the check and straighten it out. I told her I was sorry for getting upset about our conversation monday night, She said she just didn't want me to move it that's all. I said I didn't want to move in right now either. She said she didn't want to talk about it right now. I texted later that I just wanted to appologize for acting that way, that I thought she was saying she wasn't sure about her feelings for me. She said that's not waht she was saying and she didn't want to talk about it.

The next day I texted her and said I feel horrible. I'm worried about your house and there is so much I want to say that I can't say, maybe we can just talk this weekend, when everything with the house is resolved. I talked to her later and she said that the bank paid the taxes and the tax office said she had nothing to worryt about. I said that's good. She called later and asked me how I was. I said I was still having a bad day, because of worrying about the house and everything. We agreed to talk about us that weekend. She said she can't deal with crisis at the same time. I said there is no crisis I just want to appologize and make up. Then I texted her and said I was sorry for how I acted. She texted me back and said well, at least now I know you have the worst timing in the world, as if it didn't have enough to deal with. I tried to call her but she didn't answer. I texted her saying I wanted to respond to what she said, but I thought I should call. I called back about 5 minutes later. she screamed at me and said I'm on the phone with my mom. If I don't answer it's because I don't want to talk to you, I'll call you when I'm done. I texted her and said said I was sorry abut how I've been acting. She texted me back saying I'm sick of the drama. Besides the house, its been drama since the day I met you, and I've been going through this crisis with the house, and all you want to talk about for 2 days is your insecurities. I texted her a few times but she said leave me alone. Then she called me last night and said she wanted to take a step back, she thought things were going too fast.

I texted her saying I just wanted to drop this whole arg