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My boyfriend wants to live with his mother...?

So...my boyfriend and I are talking about moving into an apartment together sometime in the near future.He was talking about one day getting a 2 family house for us and his mom. Not right now but maybe in the future....she is not sick and can perfectly take care of herself. He is just a mammas boy. Was I in the wrong for saying I don't think I would live with him if he did that? We are adults moving out getting our own place and I just really don't want to live right next to his mother. She is really nice and I like her a lot I just don't think I could be happy living with my boyfriend and his mother even if the houses were separated. Now he is upset with me and thinks that I am putting "conditions" on living with him and wants to do it all on his own now in spite even though I said I'm sorry and if that's what you want to do that's what we can do and it really kinda hurts because we were suppose to do this together. But yeah, any advice would be greatly appreciated. thanks :)

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  • 9 years ago
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    I lived with my father in law and although for a while we did get along, living with your in laws is something i DO NOT suggest at all. And since you will both be moving together, it is best that the both of you are happy with the living conditions which includes YOU obviously. If it makes you uncomfortable, he should understand.

    Also, take advice from someone who has a father who STILL lives with his mother and a marriage couldnt even change that.... if hes set on living with his mom .... and it doesnt look like that will change..... other fish in the sea. Seriously.

  • 9 years ago

    Um yeah, new boyfriend?

    These things tend not to work out, because sooner or later his mom is gonna get on your nerves no matter how nice she is.

  • 9 years ago

    Do not move in with his mother. That is a deal-breaker. Would he want your relations moving in too?

    It sounds weird that he wants to live with her, frankly.

  • 9 years ago

    Don't do it

    Source(s): Bad experience
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