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I work retail and there is a dress code.....we just need to wear a nice shirt and jeans or whatever for pants....it is about to be summer and it's really hot out....if I was to go to the beach or the pool before work then instead of putting a bra on just wear my bathing suit top underneath my clothes would that be considered trashy and inappropriate? it's a halter bathing suit top so it would be noticeable around my neck.

So my son is 3 months old tomorrow....when we were at the hospital, all the nurses told us that it is impossible to spoil them until they are about 6 months....his doctor told us the same thing but every time I put him down, he cries. I don't think he is colicky because he sleeps through the night....he will sleep for like 7 hours (he use to wake me up every 2 or 3 hours to be changed and fed but now he makes it all night) which kind of worries me because I feel like he should wake up in the middle of the night to eat. but during the day he is ALWAYS crying if he is not sleeping. I end up holding him all day. everyone tells me not to do that but I am not going to just let my son cry. He eats all day too....like instead of good feedings, it seems like he is still sorta cluster feeding....like 2 oz here .5 oz there all day. I feel so bad because my fiancee gets home and the house is a mess because I can't clean or do anything until he gets home or if someone comes over because if I leave him for more than 5 minutes he cries. I have no idea what to do....I think I may have started to spoil him but everyone told me it's not possible because he hasn't learned manipulation yet. any advice will be much appreciated. thank you.

Hello :) so my boyfriend and I are expecting our first child in december....he is a buddhist and I am an atheist. His mother is very catholic and I am scared that she might try to take our son to church...I do NOT want him to be indoctrinated at such a young age....he can go to church when he is like 15/16ish and decides on his own that he wants to go to church but I do not want him going. I feel like my boyfriend would take his moms side seeing as how I don't think he would care either if he goes or not but I don't even want there to be an argument....It is going to be so hard to even talk to her about it.....I'm thinking about taking off every sunday from work so that I am with the child every single sunday but she is going to want to babysit and see her grandson some sundays. What/how do I let her know that she is NOT to take my son to church without hurting her feelings? please help. Thank you.

so my pizza stone is cracked right down the middle...pretty sure it's from when I put it room temperature into a hot oven. If I start it out in a hot oven can I still use it to put a pizza on it? Like put the 2 pieces together because they fit then just throw the pizza onto it? or will the dough like seep through into the crack?

So...my boyfriend and I are talking about moving into an apartment together sometime in the near future.He was talking about one day getting a 2 family house for us and his mom. Not right now but maybe in the future....she is not sick and can perfectly take care of herself. He is just a mammas boy. Was I in the wrong for saying I don't think I would live with him if he did that? We are adults moving out getting our own place and I just really don't want to live right next to his mother. She is really nice and I like her a lot I just don't think I could be happy living with my boyfriend and his mother even if the houses were separated. Now he is upset with me and thinks that I am putting "conditions" on living with him and wants to do it all on his own now in spite even though I said I'm sorry and if that's what you want to do that's what we can do and it really kinda hurts because we were suppose to do this together. But yeah, any advice would be greatly appreciated. thanks :)

Hi...I am a 22 year old white female and my boyfriend is a black male. My parents are racist and absoutely hate the fact that I'm with a black male. A lot of my friends and people at work have gave me crap about it as well. Things haven't been going too well between him and I and I think we need to break up. The thing is, if we do, I'm going to get "i told you not to date a black man" from like EVERYONE that disagrees with it. I am pretty sure I'm done dating white men...black men treat their women a lot better (from my experiences) so I don't want them saying things like that. What can I say/do to make them feel better about it regardless of the color of their skin? It's 2011 this kind of bs shouldn't even be going on anymore...

Hello...I am 22 and a home depot cashier. There is a male customer that comes in all the time and we are always flirting like crazyy! It's gotten to the point where I'm pretty sure he buys extra just so he can come in to return it and talk to/flirt with me more. I want to give him my number (there is a reason he hasn't given me his yet or why he hasn't asked me for mine yet, not getting into it on here though) but I don't want to do it in the conventional way. What are some cute and creative ways to give it to him? The "here's my number text/call me" thing is just a little too boring for my style.

My life is spiraling out of control....Nothing makes sense and I just need some answers. I'm thinking about going to see a psychic. I know not to take anything they say too too seriously but just to get some opinions. I just had some questions about the experience itself from some people who have been through it. Should I bring someone with me or should I go alone? What can I expect?. Thanks for your time and input I really appreciate it!

So this is kinda long but i thank anyone who sticks around because i'm extremely confused and don't know what to do. My 21 years of life and this is the only nightmare that woke me up crying and afraid and feeling so alone and lost...first a little background.....

There is a guy i've really been liking, we've been friends for about 4 years. the other day i was drunk and sent him a message on facebook telling him EXACTLY how i feel. He replied saying that we needed to talk then i replied telling him not to worry about it that i got drunk, passed out, left my facebook up and someone else sent him that message....we've been fooling around too so we're friends with benefits basically and i also said something along the lines of don't worry i just wanna get laid....here's the dream...

it was so ******* vivid....i was talking to my old crush on facebook.....and then the guy i sent the message to asked me to come over....so i bring one of my friends.....we sit down to play f-zero because for some reason he has a super nintendo. She ends up leaving. this other chick comes in and she starts starting drama so i kicked her ***.....then another girl who happens to be his current girlfriend comes in (we used to be friends) and she for some reason beats the friggen **** out of me....im walking around his house looking for my boots to leave as shes still beating me up then he hit me...(i know he would NEVER do that in real life) and as im trying to leave i walk into another room where the guy i used to like for some reason lives there too and he hears me screaming and crying and does absolutely nothing. im trying to get him to help me but he wont....then another one of my best friends shows up at his house for some reason and i start feeling so much better and ask her to walk home with me because he only lives right down the street and she says no so i end up walking alone. when i get home the girl who kicked my *** has all my family outside and she hands everyone a picture of us hanging out from way back in the day that she photocopied tons of pics of and then i show up looking like i obviously got my *** kicked and then i woke up.....there's more to it but that's majority of what i remember.

I woke up at like the exact moment the dream ended. I was so relieved that it was a dream, but it was so confusing and terrifying. Also, when I woke up, I woke up to a message from him on facebook saying "call me"...******* freaky....can someone PLEASE help me...thank you so much for taking the time to read this I really appreciate it

So this is kinda long but i thank anyone who sticks around because i'm extremely confused and don't know what to do. My 21 years of life and this is the only nightmare that woke me up crying and afraid and feeling so alone and lost...first a little background.....

There is a guy i've really been liking, we've been friends for about 4 years. the other day i was drunk and sent him a message on facebook telling him EXACTLY how i feel. He replied saying that we needed to talk then i replied telling him not to worry about it that i got drunk, passed out, left my facebook up and someone else sent him that message....we've been fooling around too so we're friends with benefits basically and i also said something along the lines of don't worry i just wanna get laid....here's the dream...

it was so ******* vivid....i was talking to my old crush on facebook.....and then the guy i sent the message to asked me to come over....so i bring one of my friends.....we sit down to play f-zero because for some reason he has a super nintendo. She ends up leaving. this other chick comes in and she starts starting drama so i kicked her ***.....then another girl who happens to be his current girlfriend comes in (we used to be friends) and she for some reason beats the friggen **** out of me....im walking around his house looking for my boots to leave as shes still beating me up then he hit me...(i know he would NEVER do that in real life) and as im trying to leave i walk into another room where the guy i used to like for some reason lives there too and he hears me screaming and crying and does absolutely nothing. im trying to get him to help me but he wont....then another one of my best friends shows up at his house for some reason and i start feeling so much better and ask her to walk home with me because he only lives right down the street and she says no so i end up walking alone. when i get home the girl who kicked my *** has all my family outside and she hands everyone a picture of us hanging out from way back in the day that she photocopied tons of pics of and then i show up looking like i obviously got my *** kicked and then i woke up.....there's more to it but that's majority of what i remember.

I woke up at like the exact moment the dream ended. I was so relieved that it was a dream, but it was so confusing and terrifying. Also, when I woke up, I woke up to a message from him on facebook saying "call me"...******* freaky....can someone PLEASE help me...thank you so much for taking the time to read this I really appreciate it

So there is a guy I work with...He is absoutley adorriable and every time I'm around him, I get butterflies in my stomach...It feels like a high school crush all over again which is driving me absoutley insane. He is kinda touchy feely with me, like putting his arm around me and stuff like that. We flirt a lot. I'm just so confused because #1 he is very out of my leauge and #2 i don't know if he's just like naturally flirty....are there like any sure fire ways to tell? I really like him and it's driving me crazy I just need to at least know....wether it's a yes or a no, just knowing will make me feel so much better...I'm so confused

I was thinking about making some special brownies for 4/20 and I was wondering if anyone has made them before, how bad do they make the house smell and for how long? I've heard it makes the house reek for a while but IDK...anyone have any good recipes for em?

I'm torn between the flying elvis or the old school pat the patriot...idk which one to get any opinions?

I am 21 and I know for a fact I am the biggest diehard Rick Nelson fan alive....I've been searching google and whatnot and can't seem to find a decent autograph of his that is reasonably priced that is absoutley authenticated....does anyone have any idea where I can find one?

Who do you guys prefer? I'm a Jim girl myself, I just think it goes down smoother and is overall a much better whiskey. I know they aren't both bourbons but what's everyone else's opinions?

Am I the only person who thinks that bumming a cigarette from someone is extremely rude? I can understand if it's someone that you know (even then if it's too often it's really annoying) but a total stranger? Sometimes I'll get multiple strangers asking me at the same thing. They're ******* expensive. Am I the only one who gets annoyed with this?

And she's trying to tell me the people who wrote it, were drunk while they were "brainstorming" for it. She said they were really wasted....like John Adams and John Hancock were **** faced while coming up with our country's most famous document ever written....anyone have any LINKS please help me

I've never done it before in my life...I lost my license due to a DUI and my parents are making me take a bus to work. I'm absolutely terrified...mostly because I'll admit, I do have a lot of pride and I really just don't want people to see me at a bus stop/on the bus but I also don't know what the people on the bus are going to be like....I'm nervous and scared and really don't want to do it.....help please?

If you're smoking weed with some people and there are others there who may or may not smoke, you have no idea (but you know they're ok with it) and you have plenty to share, would you just skip them in the rotation because you aren't sure or would you just pass them so you don't offend them (like instead of just assuming they smoke)? I'm not "trollin" i'm seriously wondering because I always feel rude if I don't at least offer. If I do, they usually politley decline but I just don't want to offend them because it might be akward for them to ask to get in on it.

I know, I know, it's like one of the rudest things you could possibily do in a store to be on your phone and in front of the casheir at the same time, but as a cashier what can you possibily do? I usually just ring up their items and don't say a single word to them. they slide their card or give me their cash, get their recipt and not a single word is spoken. I don't thank them for shopping or tell them to have a nice day, I don't even say hello, just ring and get them out of there. Am I in the wrong? I don't feel like I should have to go out of my way to acknowledge someone who is standing face to face with me providing them a service while they're talking a mile a minute making me listen to one side of a conversation. Am I justified? Something that really pisses me off too is after I give them their recipt and they're still on the phone, they'll mouth "thank you" and it's so annoying you can't stop your conversation for 1 friggen minute. But anyways is it rude of me for not saying a damn word to them while ringing them out on their phone?