What should i do... Muture woman and man answer only..?

You say you want a mature answer, but can you handle the truth??? I've been married to my wife "FAITHFULLY" for 12 yrs, and marriage is NO CAKEWALK!!! Your vows said "for better or for worse" , if your husband is not cheating or physically abusing you, then there is no CHRISTIAN reason to leave. It does "however" sound like your husband is immature and neglecting you. Have you tried couples counseling with your church? My wife and I have 3 children and our marriage requires communication and putting each other first. What you youngsters have to learn is that being the KING OF THE CASTLE means that everyone in your kingdom either benefits or suffers from your decisions...therefore it is extremely important for the man of the house to take care of his wife and his children's spiritual, physical,and emotional needs. Try marriage counseling before you give up...

Honestly...I find it disgusting how you have to beg him for money or how your not allowed to drive a car. It seems like he's very controlling and put you exactly where he wanted you. If my husband ever did that to me I would leave. Your the one who gave up everything to raise your daughter and he's treating you so poorly. It's really up to you...Have you tried talking about it? If he's so dead set in his ways you have to tell yourself...do you want to continue living the way you are now or would you rather leave, have your own career, and raise your daughter? If it was up to me, I would go with the second option. A real man would never do that to you...Best of wishes.

Im going through something similar my bf told me to quit my job when I got pregnant because I was to sick to work and he throws it in my face all the time...I use to always have my hair done and clothes and now I dont have anything I basically beg him for money ...he would rather buy his niece and his sister things rather than me and his daughter ...I love him and hes not all bad its just that he always think hes right when he is wrong ...im 21 ..basically im going to tell you to take the advice im not brave enough to take...leave go to your parents house he needs a wake up call or you will.feel a lot of Reset.

I have one question. if he was so concerned about trust with your daughter, why didn't he give up HIS job? Why does it always have to be the woman? Don't give me any BS about money and such -- that's not relevant here.

He's a control freak that much is obvious. Kick him in the nuts, tell him to stick his head where the sun don't shine and get yourself a new man who will appreciate you.

I'm so sorry but you're in an abusive relationship and you are a victim. get out. Also, you have a long, long way to go before you can become a Nurse. Your spelling, grammar and composition are terrible. You need to get a lot more education before you can go to nursing school. start now.

He's got what he wants - you under his thumb. The begging to quit your job should've been a sign but you're naive. Not any more! Get your job and get your life back. He can afford good child care. Or, he can pay child support when you divorce him.

He's not taking your needs into consideration, so you should stop being his doorstep. Go back to working, but since he doesn't trust anyone with the kid, work shifts that are opposite your husband. He can take care of the kid while you're at work.

I think you should go back to work, and do what you gotta do. If he asks wtf, then tell him...hey i have needs, your baby has needs and he can't honestly expect you or your baby to wait til he gets good and ready to give you what your asking for. You can still be a good mom and a good wife and work, and if it really bothers him who watches his baby then maybe he should take a break from his boys and stay home with his child.

Well it sounds like you guys need to have a talk to work it out. If he's not willing to tlak you have to be willing to walk. My mom always says "i can do bad all by myself"

You held up your end of the bargain but he has not so it's time to go get a job and see if his attitude changes.