Guys: Is it hard to trust a girl? What kind of relationship must there be in place?

Well, ..., yes it can be hard for guys to trust anyone. Whenever someone shares something with you in confidence DO NOT break that confidence by sharing it with anyone else unless of course they're planing physical harm to themselves or others then go straight to the police. If your crush is sharing with you on that level then that demonstrates the he has a great deal of trust in you and, in turn, you should be faithful to his trust in you.

Since you both attend church then you know how important goodness, faithfulness, and selfless devotion are to a relationship. If you really want your relationship to grow then continue talking with him and communicating with each other. Concentrate on building a deep and everlasting friendship. If it is God's will love and the bond of marriage will grow out of the kindness, selfless devotion, and mutual respect you have for one another.