My mom is losing her ****? Please help!?

She is financially stressed out. Find a job as soon as possible to lessen her worries. She loves you, have no doubt about that.

Someone said that parents enter an unwritten contract to take care of their kids no matter what. I disagree with that. Parents looks to the needs of the offspring to keep them safe, teach them how to get along with people and with life and give them morals/standards to live by. They feed, clothe, and educate the offspring. Your parents have completed what they were required to do. You graduated from college and are an adult. You should be able to support yourself. While you are living in their house, eating their food, running up their utility bills, etc. you need to start giving back. Get a part-time job if nothing else while you are sending out resumes and going on job interviews. You do the laundry, you clean the house, you make some dinners, you wash the cars on the weekend. You give back to them to help out and not just leech off them.

You are legally an adult, you can leave the home without permission. Make sure you have a key to get back in. What you need to do is work harder on getting a job then at least getting a studio apartment to start out or renting a room from someone.

When you have a child you sign an unwritten contract. You take care of your kids no matter what, that's just the way it is. Just start saying thank you for everything she does and get out as soon as possible. She should know better than to pass the stress she has down to you.

Move in with a really good friend, or stay away from your mum, work up some money and then rent an apartment or a room.

Time to move

Find a studio

look for a job and move out

move out

go to a homeless shelter and sleep there for a while until u get on your feet.

Try hard you'll be fine dont worry.