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Leah
Lv 4
Leah asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 9 years ago

I guess I'll never understand?

Last night sitting in my living room listening to my husband and his co worker having a conversation, I couldn't help but to become irritated. They were saying that when a woman has sex with different men, before she's married of course, it makes her NASTY. However, if a man were to have sex with numerous women before marriage, its not a bad thing. The conclusion they came to, was that a woman gets WORN out, that her vagina doesn't look the same. Well, I pushed out two seven pound boys, and mine still looks the same. I'm not saying its the best idea to sleep with a number of people just because there's risk of std's , but that is such a stupid remark to make on a mans behalf. I don't understand. My husband was not my first. Do I wish he was? Yes! But I know I'm not his first either. What do y'all think about this? No ugly comments please, just a question kinda like poll persay. Thanks!!! :)

Update:

Ok preceptor teeth, its not eavesdropping if you're in the same room as them involved in the conversation. And you're answer does not make any sence. Because that would fall back on yourself... thanks anyway! :)

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago
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    I think promiscuity indicates a lack of prudence, regardless of gender. People who ignore the future because they can't see past the moment.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    It's rude to eavesdrop.

    I think the issue is many men have a problem with other men's semen. Now, I realize it comes out after a short time and many use condoms. But, we just get this image in the back of our minds of some other man's baby batter dripping down from inside and it grosses us out.

    This is why I just don't think of her past sexual partners. If she let 100 men plow her vulva before me, I don't want to know. It's easier to trick my irrationality than it is to change it.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    You're surrounded by pigs. That's the only answer. Nothing complicated about that.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I'm with you, cos I'll never understand that either.

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