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What should I do about this girl?
Let me start by saying I am 17 years old, a senior in high, and I have never dated anyone or had a girlfriend. About two weeks ago a new girl showed up in my second period class who was also a senior. I spoke to her a few times here and there but I didn't flirt or anything (Although I thought she was attractive). One day I decided to walk with her to the next class when she asked me out to a dance. I didn't know how to respond so I said I'd let her know. The next day I said yes. That very day I found out that she had a boyfriend who is 20 years old whom she lives next to. When I asked her about it she said yes. From there I knew she was off limits for me so I never bothered going any further with her. A few days later she gave me a little note with her number on it though I never actually planned on calling or texting her. The day after she added me a facebook and told me to text her, so I did. After texting her for a little while things got really intimate really fast. She started asking me sexual questions and other stuff. I told her that I cant go that far because she has a boyfriend. She then told me that we can be together as long as its between her and I. So I just went with the flow. The next day (yesterday) went as normal until she sat with me at lunch. We talked and stuff while exiting the cafeteria. Once it was time to say bye she came close to me and I got close too (I thought she was going to give me a hug or a kiss on the cheek) but instead she kissed me on the lips. That was the first kiss I have ever gotten on the lips. Today we talked but she didn't act as intimate as usual. It was like she stopped caring about me. When walking together she always says that she feels awkward. But in text she acts so intimate. I don't know what she wants. She is also really nice and sweet (despite practically cheating on her boyfriend).
Sorry for the long post but my questions are:
What should I do? Should I go with the flow? Try to date her? Or just forget about her because shes not worth it?
Also why me? No girl ever likes me and I think I am extremely unnattractive
5 Answers
- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
You're a young guy and relationships are tough at your age. Think about the consequences. What do you think will happen if her boyfriend finds out? Are you prepared to get in a fight over her, a verbal dispute? Are you willing to put yourself at risk of being heartbroken by this girl? You guys are just getting to know each other and I know it's hard to answer these questions but you need to think if this is really worth it for you. Like I said, you are young and things like this are gonna happen. You're probably not gonna marry the first girl you date and you'll probably end up dating many women. You will end up with a broken heart and hopefully you'll find true love at some point....I'm getting carried away....anyway, my point is either ask her to make a choice between you or her boyfriend OR just date her and see what happens. Its up to you to make the decision. How much do you like her? How much do you know about her?
My answer to your last question "why me?", why not you? Obviously there's something special about you. You will figure this out someday. Once you're out of high school, things change, people change....
- 9 years ago
My advice is to not date her. She already has a boyfriend. I know you said that it was off limits. It's not worth ruining someone else's relationship. She might not care, but what about the other guy? Don't go with the flow of try to date her. It's simply not worth it. If she can cheat on her boyfriend, she could simply do it to you too. You said you've never had a girlfriend before. Make your first a good one! Don't choose a cheater!
- 9 years ago
Aww, why are you so hardd on yourself. You need to stop thinking that its unbelievable that a living breathing person called a girl likes you. Also for the girl, I say don't bother. SHe shouldn't be flirting with you if she has a boyfriend. You can end up beat up .
OR....
She could be lying about being unavailable to make you jealous...juss sayin..
Source(s): Girl - 9 years ago
If she's cheating on her boyfriend, she's basically cheating on you at the same time.
She is not worth it, she's probably with 3 other guys...
You lack confidence. People find confidence the most appealing. It does not matter if you are unattractive, as long as you are a good person. Don't forget what matters most.
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