How to Confront my wife?

I think you should tell her that you got the tracker after you learned that the other guy asked her over to dinner and that you know she lied about where she was that night and last week after work. There should be no grey areas between you. If there are grey areas and unanswered questions, there are problems. Address them now.

The GPS situation does look bad, and you know that so not much is going to help you convince her its good. She might understand why you did it but with the information you had it was quite a bold and over the top move. But obviously you had to know. It all depends what she's like a as a person, if shes understanding sit her down and say I think your lying. If its a small lie just so you wouldn't think anything of it then that can be handled. But you need to say you understand she didn't want you to get the wrong end of the stick and to keep it going is just because she's scared you wont trust her. After that it could go anyway so you'll have to think on your feet. You can't plan the whole conversation. Good luck!

It kindve sucks that you had to fine out the truth through a gps. Even though she lied ,there might've been some kind of logical explanation about where she was at-at that time during the dinner , and how she said was going to Her friends house which was 20 miles away. i dont think That's not enough evidence to Accuse her of being with that guy but then again what else has she lied about? I say you keep the gps on to gather more info about what shes doing and where shes at.

If the donning a marriage ring to you is significant...(Bands do no longer supply up persons from messing around) Then get them sized so she would have the capacity to positioned on them. concern a million solved... concern 2 you confronted her and she or he says of course no longer! nicely ask he why the might desire to dangle at bars with out you? in the event that they is an answer which there will be watch her face the 2d after the question is asked....I mean the 2d once you end that query....If she breaks eye touch she feels accountable approximately something...Now does no longer mean she is having a affair yet she choose no longer be in bars for some reason

nohing is wrong with you man , that's your wife.. and this is your life , and as you stated about your relationship being that good , and since she never lied to for 10 years .. then don't blame it on yourself .. its on her! .. Its clear that something fishy is going on! so it's common sense to question it and act about it.

just to make sure she was/isn't lying .. what i would do first is to make sure to check who that co worker is by gathering the right informations i must have making sure shes with the exact same co worker shes been texting with. the key to know him her is his cell phone number , wither calling the place they work together as anonymous and ask about his name according to his cell number, or identifiyng the service provider (carrier) of his cell phone number then contact them directly, i'll try to get hes vehicle registration plate number , his house location, if there is a way to trace his location by his cell number that would be helpful as a proof they are together in the same place.

then i'll leave the GPS tracker in her car, i'll rent a car ( or a friends car she doesn't know about) , grab my camera to capture her steps ( that am sure i'll need to as a proof to accuse her ) so that i won't have to explain anything to her as it's been said " a picture is worth a thousand words! and i'll follow her from a distance while taken picuters of her every step of the way , then depends on situation .. if she turnd out to be with the same guy according to his car out side, hes house or just staying together in the place of work,wherever .. next step is to call her and start to record the conversation "ask where she is and so on" .. if i notice something suspicious ! I'll show up and act accordingly .. then confront them both!

if not , then i'll try again another day .. will take it easy , it would be just like a walk in the park!

That just me though! , and what i would do .. but you need to do whatever your heart tells you to, to be able to figure whats going on and take this off your chest! after all .. its your wife , your life!

Best wishes Man!

I have never had to deal with a cheater, but my co-workers who have been cheated on, and other friends say you just know when it is happening. You know your wife better then anyone, so it is the small changes that make you "wonder".

Just tell her you know that she was not in London, and she didn't leave work. If she must know explain, she is the one in the wrong. You were the one with suspicion.

You should tell her that you were just worried about her and that you wanted to see where she was in case something happened. What if she got mugged and you had tip come save her, but you didn't know where she was? And you were only doing it to protect her. Tell her that you don't want to be lied to, that you couldn't stand the thought of something happening. But make sure you tell her that you promise to stop being do secretive.

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It doesnt make you look crazy. It shows diligence in getting some proof befor you accuse. Sit her down and talk it out. You cannot repair the marriage if you dont get them to admit to it and find out why they did it.

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