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how to get respect from father-in-law and mother in law?

i am a married man with 1 kid who is 2 yrs old,i had a small job, i got a decent dowry ,so the story goes here. in order to make huge money i invested the dowry money in stock market which make huge loss,my wife knows all about this still she is very kind towards me.some how my mother-in-law came to knows this,she dont like my current job and want me to go abroad ,i tried but with my experence and education i came to know that its difficult to get a job in abroad.Another thing is i am little shot tempered,i sometimes quarrel with my wife,which they don't like,its only last for few hrs. i love my wife and child.my wife had a sister,she recently got married to gentle man who has a good job in abroad,he is earning 10 times more than me.his behavior is very polite ,i liked him very much,but later i understand that they love him like there son,if there is a get together they take much attention to his needs.Later i came to know that they don't like me that much,but they love my child.so now i had an inferiority complex when there is a get together in there home.they don't take much attention of my words.so i want you to suggest how i can improve my behavior , i had some debts also ,so i cannot able to sleep properly. only Indians need to answer this

Update:

INDIAN PLP CAN ONLY UNDERSTAND THIS KIND OF SITUATION ,THATS WHY

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Why should only indians why can't cowboys or the giants answer this. lol just kidding ANyway there is your problem you need to open you r mind and heart i understand you have your own ways of doing things. Yet alot of people go throught what your going through so you need to thinkof your family and just try to please her and your son. Do not worry about her mom and pop or be envious of the other guy. What if they lost what they had and you still had your job and would they not be poorer than you. So what you must understand you can do what only you can do accept that failer is part of life.Getting angry only feeds the bad in your life so stop when yor wanting to yell at your wife who i thinkonly wants to help you. If your mother inlaw wants you to go find a job else where, thank her for her suggestion and ignore her or think of something funny . YOu will find yourself a good job soon just kindness and patients is all you need and tell your wife to find a word that when your getting angry to say to you so you can realize or snap out of your getting angry and calm down. ok

  • 9 years ago

    only indians need to answer this comment has two problems 1 it seems you are very narrow minded 2 i doubted if an indian can advise you bcoz all Indians have the same mentality. Well here is the answer you dont go there where you are not welcomed and definately dont go abroad because you seem to be racist

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    My first mother in legislation I bought at 22 and known as her Mum. She had my husband late in life so was nearer a grandma's age than a mother. I failed to in finding calling her mum elaborate. On account that of the age difference i might have determined it elaborate to make use of her christian identify. My new release were brought as much as deal with older persons as Mr/Mrs I was once 46 once I married again. My new M.I.L. I known as mum mostly and usually used her christian identify. I cannot say why It diverse. As in your guy pal i don't see the challenge. As long as they get on it isn't important what he calls her.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    So far u lived a senseless life.

    Now adapt common sense, logic, observation and understanding.

    Stop gambling either with your money or with somebody's money.

    Gambling takes you nowhere, but it makes you an irresponsible gambler and an unwanted human being.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    you too go abroad -------->and start earning money ------>then you will also get respect [ coz the world revolves around money,like bees around crushed sugarcane ]

    and additionally give respect take respect ,and if possible serve thy elders

    good luck

  • 9 years ago

    Jst u obey u eldrs

  • 9 years ago

    First pay then expect.

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