My friend slept with my ex boyfriend. First love, only boyfriend?

She is not your friend!!! That is so cruel! Especially because, as you said, she has slept with a lot of guys and it is only sex to her, it's not as though she even had feelings for him.

You need to tell her straight up, just say "I can't be friends with you, you slept with my ex and didn't even have the decency to tell me. I don't want to talk to you again. Please refrain from contacting me as there is nothing you can do or say to make this right, goodbye." Then walk away.

You can even text or email her this if you want, I don't see why you should make an effort to confront her in person, she doesn't really deserve it. But do not talk to her again, whatever she says to you. Remember she was a fake friend, and you deserve better than both of them.

Any friend whom can do that is no friend at all. If she was a good friend, and liked him/slept with him she would have told you and said sorry. But no, she betrayed your trust and went behind your back. I think you should have nothing to do with either of them. If that is you in your profile photo, then you are very pretty and can get any boy you wanted! I know you feel hurt. It will get better in time. You will find many more friends and a really good boyfriend and you will look back and wonder why you were ever bothered about two pathetic people in the first place. You should talk to her though and tell her how you feel. Or even send her an e-mail. Good luck.

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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

about a year ago i fell for my good friend ryan, ive known him for ever and we have always been buds. Him and my best friend were i think on and of from 12 - 14, and 18-19.

Him and i always had this flirty thing but nothing came of it because of his relationship with my best friend.

last year almost to the day (oct 22) we went and saw footloose, we went as friends and came back as more then that. now we dated from then till dec 20 when we made it offishal :)

however i didnt tell this friend about it till we had been dating awhile.

She reacted EXACTLY how i thought she would. We didnt talk for months!

were good now, but like i said its been a year!!!

maybe she is just worried. You cant help these things sometimes.

this is going to be a long answer heads up xd

1) i thik ppl only say you can't be in real love to those stupid idiots who date someone for other a week or a day and there like "I LOVE YOU a three year relationship that is real love. so dont' doubt that .

2) you have every damn right to be annoyed and pissed. i mean trust me i ahd this same thing happen to me. but instead of it being my friend.. it was my sister. -.- and i didn't hear about it. i caught them in the act.. and learned they were doign that behind my back. for the whole relationship (i refued to spread my legs. but she wasn't it was only a 9 month relationship) what i did was this. since i couldnt' techonly kill them. and i couldn't just be like a friend and drop her as a friend. because we lived togther and she is blood soo i have to be stuck with her until one of us dies. what i did was this. you can do like a write a letter on paper (not on txt. to easy to send it) and write all your emtions on how this friend hurt you.. or you can work out your anger by acturally working out lol xd confront her . be like "ho why you spread ur legs open to my ex." lol or you could be more gentle about the situration. lol you should confind in another friend friend spourt is really good. talk to other friends and rant to them about whats going on. thy can be more affected to give oyu help then bunh of stranger lol

3) dont worry you'll find a better love if this *** cheated on you. then he wasn't a true love true love wont hurt you. wont sleep with your best friend or your sister xd (or brother if you got one lol) Love will find you again dont worry :)

That's like everyone of my "friends" here where I live. It's pathetic, and girls are fake. She's probably jealous if you && though sleeping with YOUR LOVE would "up stand" you. You should let her know you know what she did, tell her it's fake and you trusted her with your heart && basically betrayed you. I don't think you should tell it argue. Simply tell her && be done with that friendship. Just like a relationship with a man you won't be able to trust her again. As for him he's a nasty pig. He has respect for you... So I think you need to drop him as well lose contact with both of them. They don't deserve you in their life's. hope you figure things out! <3

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There is nothing to do. You guys weren't together and she is not obliged to "keep away" from her friends ex.

You need to get laid