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Why do I still get sucked into playing mind games?
In afew relationships i've been in, mind games have heralded the end of communication and the relationship. Now that i'm older and wiser (30) shouldn't they be a thing of the past? I love the woman i'm with and don't want to hurt her in the same way that i've been hurt with mindgames in the past. Any suggestions? Advice?
3 Answers
- DanielLv 49 years ago
Yeah, I think you should be over these games. I would like to know what kind of games you are talking about. I guess you just gotta be smarter. Why do you think you are gonna hurt her. If you haven't done it to anyone else what makes you think you are gonna do it now. Are you the one playing the games or is it the women. Relationships are fragile early on and you gotta be smart. But there is no perfect relationship and communication of your true thoughts and feelings will help a lot. When you have a conflict. .You can use the ARTS method. Ask about the persons feelings before you jump to conclusions, Respond with empathy (put yourself in there shoes) Tell them exactally how you feel and what you think the reason for the conflict is. then Seek a resolution together.
Good luck
- 7 years ago
Kik me so we can talk? Sperry2018
Not flirting or nothin just want/need someone to talk to