caught my girlfriend sexting her best friend, what should i do?

whoa whoa, hold on there you insecure man.... If it's bothering you then tell her that straight to her face and that you don't want it to ruin the relationship. Make her stop it or else let the relationship end.

Sexting can open up all sorts of issues in a relationship because you're going outside of your relationship to gain some kind of fantasy gratification from someone else (this is why many people think of sexting as a form of cheating). The problem is that you agreed to her doing something that you did (and thought was acceptable) in a past relationship and only now (after you agreed) are you worried about whether her sexting is a precursor to opening 'pandora's box'.

You're now in a position where you can't manage this situation effectively because you agreed to what she's doing and you've done it yourself. If you were to ask her to stop now, you may well come across as hypocritical (because she knows that you've done it in the past). You're her first sexual partner so it stands to reason that she's going to be curious about lots of different things; who knows where it could lead if she's exposed to sexting with other guys.

Ultimately, no relationship can survive without open communication; you should be able to talk to her openly about how you feel now that you've thought about the possibility that her sexting could have a negative effect on your relationship. Also, what is she getting from sexting that she's not getting in her relationship with you?

You girlfriend sexting with her best friend is called cheating. And you should not accept that. I hate to say this but you would be foolish if you think that you can have a healthy relationship with her. You may think that she is inexperienced in relationship and sex. But from the looks of things I think it seems that when it comes to sex then your girlfriend is not that inexperience. If she was then she could not be sexting with a best friend. I think that you should run and not look back. I think that you can do much better that this. I think that you are just starting to see a side of your girlfriend that you haven't seen before and that should be a big red flag.

Chances are he's not gay that's the typical cover up for a bit on the side or planning too could be fun if he really is but I definatly wouldn't trust her

My advice, dump her sorry ***, don't put up with a cheater, you don't deserve that. Get a real woman who remains faithful. and better yet you shouldn't have sexted during a relationhip either but i hope you know this, and i believe you do.

Initially im sorry that happened to you. I are aware of it wont be easy but you have got to smash up along with her, and it used to be with your nice pal if he was fairly your pal he shouldn't have finished that to you. Ive heard some things however that is just quite sad. So just let her go.

no she is not stop being suspicious she is not sexting him

if it is not i am sorry but

if this is James from Melbourne Victoria shut the hell up and leave Rebecca alone and get out of her life

sorry an asshole ex boyfriend of one of my friends

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**** her dump that *****

Stop being so nice and dump her! You don't deserve that!!

Might just be joking if he is gay. If he is straight this might be "serious"

She is going to cheat! Nothing you can do about.it!