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A serious question for men (SERIOUS QUESTION!)?

I have been with the same guy for 5 years and we have experienced different sexual things, but there is one thing I am not so sure about... I have done things orally with his anus, but for the last year or so he asks for it all the time and now he wants fingers and when I do it, it feels big in there. I am starting to have weird feelings about it. Is this normal or should I be worried about him wanting "something else"? this is really a serious question. Thanks for your honesty.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    Ok dear listen up, it's time someone gave you a proper lesson on the male anatomy.

    You see, people have things called erogenous zones. These are zones that contain nerves designed to make us feel sexual pleasure. They can be found on your vagina, penis,nipples and yes, your anus.

    Men ESPECIALLY have these sex nerves in the anus because that is where the prostate is located. There is nothing "gay" about it because who is giving the pleasure doesn't matter, it's about stimulation, like masturbating.

    Most men are scared of stimulating their anus because they are scared of it making them gay but that is ridiculous. A woman can stimulate it for you and it's really nice!

    So yeah, he likes it because he's a guy and has more nerves there than you because you don't have a prostate so yeah he's gonna enjoy it.

    Totally natural, more men would open up to it if they weren't insecure.

    All men have sex nerves in the anus, being gay or not won't change that.

  • 8 years ago

    Anal pleasure is a biological thing. While Anal pleasure is usually reserved for a homosexual relationship, and its often shunned, ignored, or chastied by heteronormative ones, many straight heterosexuals can still feel apt sexual desire to feel "anal Pleasure".

    While you may be uncomfortable with the idea(as there is no biological way for a female to actually enjoy the male anus)

    If you trully loved/liked him, you would be willing to *do* him in the ***, if thats what he likes. If your relationship is as shallow as sex alone, and you have no desire to do such as thing.

    NOT SAYING YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS shallow, just implying that its something that is not "GAY" to like, although its associated with gayness. I can see why you dont like it, as a girl, its probably completly unattractive the idea of "*******" a guy. Oh wellz. There are straight dudes who ONLY want to get ****** by girls, and sometimes in the weirdest ways.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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  • 8 years ago

    What the hell do you think makes anyone like anal? It isn't that gay people like pain or something. It is because it feels good to a lot of men. You do realize that is where the prostate is right? The prostate regulates our orgasms. jGet over it and **** him.

  • 8 years ago

    Maybe he is bisexual

    If he gets satisfied that way then you should do it if it feels ok for you because he likes it. Even if he would like a guy to do that or he likes guys he still may like you way more

  • 8 years ago

    I think it is kind of gay, but some guys are straight and like it in the butt. If he asks you to wear a strap on that is to far to be straight though. but who knows you could get in a 3 some with 2 guys if your into that, look at the bright side XD

  • Skylar
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Sounds pretty kinky to me. I don't want to have anything to do with anuses--not my own anus, not other guys' anuses, not girls' anuses--and I certainly don't want anyone screwing around with my anus.

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