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Can you make some things clear for me?

1.) Why do SOME women believe they're the dominant sex, but want to be "dominated" by men for sexual pleasure? No sexism involved. (I'm a 13 year-old girl.) I just don't get it.

2.) I was told all my life I'd never amount to anything, but a housewife. (by my mom) However, I make great grades and already qualify for a couple scholarships. I want to be a surgeon.

3.) My gal-friends (girls that r friends) have been starting to cut me out of EVERYTHING!!! It doesn't bother me entirely too much because I have plenty of guy friends, but I think they are the reason they cut me out. Hanging too much around the guys is causing me to lose all my gal-friends. One has told me that between me & the guys, she doesn't get a word in edge wise. However, I really don't wanna hear bout everything that's wrong with my appearance, or about their on & off boyfriends.

3.) My dad left 2 days before my 7th birthday. I have 2 sisters & my mom. My mom is very judgmental. My sisters look up 2 me as a role model. To be honest, I DO NOT set the best example. At first, having no father figure didn't bother me, but as I've gotten older, it bothers me more & more. I don't want the actual man back in my life, but I've found myself craving the WRONG kind of male affection. I'm 2 young 4 this.

4.) Why do I get so much crap for being blonde? I know I can be shallow somethimes when it comes to other people's feelings, but I'm book & "street" smart.

5.) One of my ex-boyfriends takes up more for me know than when we were going out. One time, this guy made up some stuff about him raping me & saying he posted it on YouTube titled: Look at the Ugly Slut I Just Banged. My ex got all of his buddies & kinda shook the guy up. He doesn't like me like dat anymore, but we remained good friends cuz we both wanted 2 break up around the same time. Today, he beat up a another guy making fun of my sister. He never did anything like this while we were going out. (That video does NOT exist.)

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  • 8 years ago
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    OMG IM 13 TOO! Wow! You have so much going on in your life! Ok first of all who f***** cares if your blonde! Your hair colour doesn't determine who you are! Second of all your mom is WRONG! That's for sure. Dont worry my parents are sometimes wrong too. You will not become a housewife! Continue to do well in school, make sure you get a scolarship and PROVE HER WRONG! I know life is tough right now, but in 20 years it'll all pay off. When your a surgeon getting rich! And about your sisters, I know its hard to always be a role model but you have to. I know you love them so set them on the right track. If you really think about it, your all they"ve got, since your mom isn't much help. Their actually innocent. I know it feels like siblings suck, trust me i know I have 4 younger. But, be their friends in reality you are actually the only one got. About your first question, I actually don't know. Dont worry about that! As long as your not that type of girl, it doesn't matter. And maybe your ex is trying to get your attention or something.. But seriously he sounds too violent! Btw: you have a ex?! I never even had my first kiss or been in a real date?! LOL and your gal friends are b!tches, girls are like that okay. Some are huge backstabbers! So just hang out with your guy friends ( dont date any of them). Life is too short to be spending it with people who anger you, so just hang with people u enjoy! You are going through so much! Half of them are useless by the way.

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  • buchy
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    oh for *****! sake. why are the words 'newborn neglectors' and 'padeophiles' being branded so surely by way of ppl who know no longer something of different ppl using this web site. each and every thing approximately this concern is concept and a few ppl listed right here are in simple terms straightforward spiteful and unwell interior the top. they left their infants unattended because of the fact they concept the possibility grew to become into negligeable, in simple terms the comparable way i pass away my infants in mattress on the front of the homestead together as i'm interior the back backyard some 300yds away, the possibility is negligeable. now i'm no longer asserting leaving such youthful infants in an unlocked room grew to become into ultimate yet in simple terms perhaps kate and gerry have been niave sufficient to think of that they could be ok. they made a super mistake, they are paying the cost and could do for something of their lives, are you able to all on right here be so particular that your parenting skills are so amazing, i could like to be around in 10 years or so whilst your little darlings have the two gotten pregnant, have been given addicted to drink or drugs, have stolen because of the fact they needed something they could no longer handle to pay for or commited another form of crime then i will cry the place have been the mothers and fathers, i blame the mothers and fathers, because of the fact this way of factor occurs on a daily basis to midsection of the line working and midsection type mothers and fathers, you could no longer watch your infants 24/7 and you will't administration them the two. the mccanns concept the possibility grew to become into negligeable and at worst they are responsible of negelct this would not supply us the final to critisie what they placed on or who they see, all human beings is a lot to crictical and ppl in glass residences shouldn't throw stones. no longer certainly one of you is a appropriate determine and till you're you at the instant are not extra healthful to decide !

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