Why can't I just win?

Didn't have a very easy way of wording this. So here it goes. A couple of months ago, I started going out with this girl. We had a couple of dates and I really started to like her and she really started to like me. I thought things were great until she said she's moving out of state at that point I thought "okay". After I asked her about it she said that we were going to stop dating but that maybe sometime in the future things might pick up again. So stupid me decided to keep in touch with her. It finally got to the point where I resolved to getting rid of the pictures and a stupid little sweater I bought. She texts me and I say I'm getting some stuff and she asks if I'm getting rid of the pictures and sweater...I ask her why and she says she's still holding on to them. Now keep in mind, this is a month after she said we aren't dating anymore. She then says that while we may not have anything between us now, she said we most likely will in the future. "A glimmer of hope" I thought and decided to hold onto them just a tad longer...now I find out she wants to get back with her ex and she says she still wants to be friends. I told her how I felt about all that and now I feel a little lost.

I know I'll get over it and that this is temporary, but it just sucks......

What do you all think?