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Should I put our friendship before my feelings for her?

I'm a guy and I have three best friends. Two guys I've known since first grade and a girl who I've known since seventh grade. Now I'm in eigth grade. And I hate to say it but...I'm starting to... get into girls. My friend in particular. The four of us are such great friends. I don't know, if I tell my friend how I feel will it ruin our friendship? Not only for all four of us, but for the two of us as well. Sould I hide my feelings to keep our friendship, or go for it?

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  • 8 years ago

    In 8th grade, I wouldn't be too worried about girls. But that being said, I fell for my best friend earlier this year, and if he hadn't made a move, we wouldn't be as happy as we are now. Even if things hadn't worked out, we were both such good friends that it wouldn't have mattered. We would have remained friends even if the feelings weren't mutual, so I say it can't hurt to go for it.

    Source(s): Personal experience
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    go for it! the best relationships are with friends, cuz ur not gonna ask a random stranger! do it aap before it gets too late and she doesnt want to!

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