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Why am I not emotinally intact with my feelings? 10 points plz help.?

I don't know what it is with me. Everytime I like a girl/fall in love I know it's love when I can't stand not seeing her and I'm thinking about her day n night and other uhm.. private stuff lol. But everytime I get into a relationship about 2 weeks through my feelings go away. I'm no longer in love. I want to be. You don't understand how much I wanna be in love with my current girlfriend. I don't know what it is. it gives me a headache just not being able to stay in that love zone with a girl. I won't break up with her so I don't want ppl saying "find someone else" I wanna be with her forever. How can I fall back in love with her? I'll do anything for this girl. Rgith now I can only say I kinda like her, all the passion went away but I want it back. I know what love is, I've felt it a numerous amount of times, it just always eventually goes away. My friends say it's cuhz I like a challenge and once I have the girl it's no longer a challenge so i lose interest. Well even if that is the case just what can I do to fall in back// fall in love with a girl?

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  • 8 years ago
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    I think it's because you're still emotionally immature. Now when I say immature, I'm not saying that you don't know what love is, I'm saying that you really haven't taken the time to devote yourself to actually loving someone. If you really want to fall in love with your girlfriend, then start appreciating any little things she does. Like reminding you of important dates or events, getting stuff for you, etc. She's a human being just like you & isn't obligated in any way to do any of those things for you. Take into account that there were many people out there she could have chosen from & she decided to spend her time with you. Love her for that and all the other little things she does!

  • 8 years ago

    maybe you lack some focus and concentration. try meditating once a day for a couple weeks, before you do it, think about all the good times youve had with your girlfriend. then sit down and close your eyes and think about NOTHING at all for 5 or 10 minutes. it will have a positive affect on you i guarantee it.

    Source(s): me
  • 8 years ago

    give urself some room and remind urself why u love her..then plan a special surprise dinner 4 her :)

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