I am ready to buy a Snubby for the wife . Thinking Smith or Ruger how about a few ideas from Ya'll ..?

I would avoid an ultra-lite or air weight all together. Especially avoiding the LCR from Ruger.

My mother, my wife, and a friends wife all complained ( on separate occasions) with multiple store bought loads in the LCR. Even with very light reloads there were still complaints. My father likes his, best trigger out of most revolvers I have found, but the grip / lack of weight / recoil is usually a no-go for the ladies. I would go with a standard weight with either a full or bobbed hammer. Makes it much easier for range-time to get her used to the gun, and the extra weight will be a blessing especially if you don't reload. Anything that can accept a full grip is more comfortable at first. If you then choose to go with a boot grip later it's up to her. Do you not wish to go with Taurus? They have a few models and are usually in every gun store, and I typically only see air weights or hunting models from the S&W and Ruger.

Well sir, I appreciate your thought. I have a .38 S&W bodyguard. It has the concealed hammer, and is five shots. The problem with it is that I would NOT fire +P loads, and because it is a light alloy frame gun I would not use it daily at the range. It just would not hold up to that amount of use.

I would suggest the S&W with the exposed hammer and all steel version .38 special. take a look at the Lady Smiths. She may like that. BUT you may find it embarrassing if you highjack here revolver to use yourself :-) But I highly suggest the extra weight of a non alloy gun. AND the great trigger of the S&W.

There was a lady here once who asked about a Miroku revolver that she found at a pawn shop. I know of Miroku, they made the high quality version of the Charles Daily over and under shotgun. I told her, and we found the S&W clone of the Smith snubby was actually a higher resale value then the Smith. I think she said she paid $90.00 for the Miroku .38 and it showed that is worth $400.00, a good purchase. The Japanese steel is actually high quality stuff, and Miroku is known to make very high quality stuff. ( Just thought I would mention that, if you ran into one )

S&W, Ruger, and Taurus are the three I'd recommend. Rossi, as someone else mentioned, may be a possibility; they're made by Taurus, if I recall correctly. Incidentally, the Ruger LCR is a pretty compact little snubnose, and the SP101 is a bit larger- which is why another respondent mentioned that Ruger's revolvers are a little large, I bet.

It is my personal opinion that a Charter Arms is not worth having. Reading the reviews people give for them online, I simply do not see them as being reliable. On the other hand, it won't be my handgun, so you're welcome to look in that direction if you want.

As for what model to select, have your wife see what fits her. She'll be the one carrying it, so she needs to like it. Take her with you to the gun shop and see what interests her. Have her hold them, and whatever feels best in her hands is where you need to start.

Good luck!

Ruger revolver are pretty bulky... if it were me, I'd carry a sw 642 loaded with +P. Light, but not too light for the caliber, and snag free

As a side note, Id fully recommend a ruger gp100 for open carry. Those things are tanks...

Lady Smith.

Mine picked her own out. She got a little .38 5 shot Rossi It was a nice small easy to conceal with a 3" barrel.

http://www.rossiusa.com/product-details.cfm?id=136...

Edit: mine liked "shiny" things too but her's was a stainless model, this was several years ago.

I would look for a 2" Smith & Wesson with either a hammer shroud or hammer-less. They come out of a pocket or purse much smoother!

A snubby? Try Newell's d!ck. It's snubby.

You can't beat the S&W 442/642.

That is not a simple question and there is no simple answer. A personal firearm is a very personal item indeed. It has to fit in with your lifestyle, your clothing, your physical build, your local laws and its intended use. There is no one best answer for everyone.

My advice is to treat this as you would any major purchase. Do your homework. Research what's available. After you've done that, go to a shooting range that rents guns (probably an indoor range) and try out the ones you think might work for you to see what fits you best. Keep in mind that the fact that someone is standing behind the counter at a gun store does not necessarily mean they know anything about guns or their use. Some of them will be very knowledgeable and helpful. A few will cheerfully spout utter nonsense. All of them are salespersons. That's one reason you have to do your homework.

That said, here's some guidelines:

Stay away from off brands and cheap junk. If you're a beginner, buy new from a reputable dealer. A good quality firearm, properly maintained and cared for, will last a lifetime, so amortize the price over a few decades to reduce sticker shock. Remember, you're going to bet your life on this gun. The middle of a gun fight is a bad place to realize you should have spent the extra hundred dollars or so.

The minimum defensive caliber for semiautomatics is 9x19mm, aka 9mm Parabellum, aka 9mm Luger, aka 9mm NATO. (If you have a physical limitation that makes 9x19mm too much to handle, 9x17mm, aka .380, may have to do, but certainly nothing less.) The minimum for revolvers is .38 Special. Anything over .45 ACP for semiautos or .357 Magnum for revolvers will likely overpenetrate the target, wasting some of its energy and endangering who or what is beyond, so they're not recommended.

These days I recommend against revolvers for defensive purposes. Their capacity is too restricted and they're too slow to reload. It's true that revolvers have fewer stoppage modes than semiautos. However, most semiauto stoppages can be cleared in a matter of seconds with a little training. When a revolver jams, it's out of the fight and may require a gunsmith to get it going again.

When in doubt, you generally won't go far wrong with a Glock, but some people just don't like them. Nearly all ranges that rent guns rent Glocks, so it's easy to find out if you get along with them.

Tritium night sights are worth the extra expense. Most other bells and whistles aren't.

Re: Accessories:

Yes, you're going to need some.

You need eye and ear protection for practice at the range. A baseball style cap is also recommended.

You need a safe, secure place to store your gun when necessary. There are many options for quick access lock boxes and gun safes. (Caution: Guns left alone in safes have been known to breed and multiply.) Beware of trigger locks. They are accidents waiting to happen and do nothing to prevent theft. There are few things more embarrassing than going to your local police station to report a stolen gun. One of those things is coming home to find someone pointing your gun at you.

You need a cleaning kit. There are many on the market and they all pretty much work. Follow the instructions that come with them for gun cleaning and maintenance.

You'll need a holster. Sooner or later, there will come a time when you want to have your gun with you for a while. The middle of a riot or natural disaster is a bad time to go shopping for holsters.

A holster should be designed to fit your make and model of gun. Its mouth should be stiff enough to remain open when the gun is drawn in order to facilitate safe reholstering. It needs to hold the gun and itself firmly in place, so it will be where you expect it to be when you reach for it. Military style cover flaps are counterproductive. Thumb break straps will slow you down. A good quality concealed carry rig can cost $50-100. A simple Kydex or other plastic paddle holster will be much less, but won't be as stealthy.

For semiautos, you'll need a spare magazine carrier or two. The doubles are often uncomfortable to wear and some point one magazine in the wrong direction. For revolvers, you need speed loaders and carriers for them.

Above all, get training in safe gun handling and defensive use of firearms. That is absolutely critical. Without training, you're kidding yourself and endangering those around you. Don't let it slide.