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? asked in Social SciencePsychology · 8 years ago

I hate my life so much, help?

I just feel like such a screw up, nothing I ever do is right. And I just hate myself. Lately I've been making so many mistakes. I have this 18 year old tutor and I'm 16. He told me if I wanted his trust back I'd send him a nude shot with my face in it. So I did it. He sent me one tooThen he told me its his insurance and if I say anything hell show people. When he touched me it just didn't feel right. And when we had sex that didn't feel right either. He also told me that when the girls he tutors do something right he likes to reward them that sounded creepy. I don't know but it makes me feel like he does this to other girls. I feel like he took advantage of me. I mean I just got back

From rehab for self harm. I told my sister about it and she wants to tell my parents. I don't want to. Get him in any trouble but I dont think he deleted the pictures.. It's making going crazy and I'm becoming moody.

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  • 8 years ago
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    Why would you give in like that and send him nudes for his trust?? I understand you felt weak buy their could've been other options. He's 18 so that is considered rape, you can get the cops on him and tell them about your nude picture and they'll get rid of it before he sends it to anyone

  • 8 years ago

    People always screw up its part of our human nature. You have to tell your parents about the nudes, the tutor is giving you a hard time you should give him a hard time also. He probably already showed someone your nudes, tell your parents before its too late, it might be scary but trust me doing nothing about it will only give you more trouble. Plus by telling on him you could be saving many other girls and it will take away alot of pressure.

  • 8 years ago

    Dear girl, if you weren't such a slut you wouldn't be in this mess. Stop being so slutty you could have said NO but u decided not to.

    HOW TO FIX:

    Tell your parents, your still young don't be scared whats he gonna do? If he sends the picture out its child pornography and he will go to jail and be marked as a felon. Your parents are there to HELP! So ask for some help and don't try to be a solo-dolo hot shot. Your fault your like amanda todd suck it up and ask for help and don't be such a slut you got yourself in this mess.

    Source(s): Dumbass.com/slut
  • 8 years ago

    I don't know where you live, but in GA, that 18 year old would be arrested and probably charged for "intercourse" with a minor. It is also illegal for him to have a nude picture of you. You should tell your parents and make sure that he doesn't know you have told them. You should also stay away from him. He sounds like a very creepy person.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Dear Sam, Just I want to tell that a nude picture or video of a person is neither considered a crime for that person nor something to be shameful about it we all can be nude, Just don't think about it. The actual thing to be shameful about it is to do something wrong just because nothing.

  • 8 years ago

    Okay, well, your sister has the right idea. Talk to people who can actually help you. Not telling on him just so he won't get into trouble kind of defeats the point. He's the reason you feel bad.

  • 8 years ago

    You having this thought of hate indicate that you are absolutely in control of your emotions.what you need to do now is to explore control of emotional for your betterment.......talk to him for a delete of those photos if he refuses please inform your parent.

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