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He just wants to miss me?!!?

So my boyfriend and I live together. We don't fight about anything except one big thing, the fact how he doesn't make me feel apreciated, doesn't make me feel like his girlfriend. I feel like I'm just his roomate sometimes.

We've fougt bout this before and we get good and then we fight again. So today I packed my back pack in front of him,(enough for 2 days) and he didn't say anything. 40 min later he calls and wanted to know where I was cause he wanted to know I was safe. We talked about our problems, again, but this time he mentioned something "I just want to miss you." I asked him to explain, but he wouldn't.

I am so confused on what this could mean. So where do u think we stand? Any advice or opinions will help. Thanks.

Update:

I also want to add that I work 2 jobs so we don't really spend that much time together. We never really go out. I try to do little movie night at home but he still doesn't put any effort..

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  • 8 years ago

    Your boyfriend and you live together. When you spend that much time with someone, sometimes it's hard to realize what you appreciate about that person. What he means is that he want to remember what you do for him, why he chose to make you his girlfriend in the first place, and it's hard to do that when he feels like you've been there forever. The fact that he make you feel like you're just a roommate sometimes is the same thing, it's hard for some people, and especially guys, to be in a boyfriend-girlfriend mode all the time. Sometimes, guys just want to live in their own home, without feeling like they have to do anything seperate just because of the relationship you two have.

    Source(s): Off the top of the dome.
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