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T. asked in Arts & HumanitiesBooks & Authors · 8 years ago

I'm doing this for all the wrong reasons :(?

I've never thought of this before until someone in a previous question of mine told me. They said I'm not really interested in books but more of the idea of booktubing and just saying I have tons of books... and they're right. I'm addicted to watch BookTubing videos of hauls, tags, bookshelf tours,etc. So, I basically got back into reading so I could be just like them with tons of books and have a bookshelf and do hauls and etc. But I don't think I'm even enjoying the reading. I'm just rushing through to say that I read it, I liked/disliked it, and add it to my shelf. I glad I decided to watch booktubing videos because it got me back into reading and introduced me to newer books, but I also think that if I never would've watched them, I wouldn't be so eager to read books and not care whether or not it was good, just to show it on a bookshelf. It's making me completely miss the meaning of reading in the first place. When I was younger I read what I wanted to read no matter if it was popular or not, no matter who was reading it. I just read it for enjoyment, now I'm the complete opposite? How do I stop? I love that I discovered sooo many good books, but I'm angry that I just want to get them not for enjoyment but for the reputation of having tons of books. I don't know what to do. I ordered lots of "popular books" among the booktubing community that I'm interested in, but I'm not sure if I'm really enjoying the book ya know? I don't know how to get out of it. I;m still in the "getting them, reading, them, and continue my collection" phase. What can I do to make me truly enjoy the books not just to be like booktubers but for myself? And I'm honestly really interested in the books I ordered but I think also for good and bad reasons :(

I have over 200 books in my wishlist and I was so excited that I bought the "popular" books in the book community and I was hoping I could do reviews, tags, bookshelf tours,etc once I build my collection but now I don't feel like doing that anymore because the person that responded to my question was right.

They said: To be honest, you sounded more interested in the idea of books and book tubing and the trappings surrounding them than you were in actually reading. Once the excitement of the original idea had worn off.....you lost interest.

Read books for themselves. Read the ones that you want to read. Do not read books simply because they are "popular" or because someone is prepared to give you a free copy.

Take your books one at a time. There is no point in storing up books that you are never going to read - you are better having 1 or 2 that you want to read than an oppressive heap of books that you feel you ought to read. There is no merit reading large numbers of books simply so that you can say that you read lots of books.

Now take a book you want to read and read it. Read it for yourself and not for any other reason. The love of reading will return although doing other things in life will not hurt.

I totally agree with them, but I don't know how to do this. Please help.

Update:

I even have 3 of the books I ordered already and I put them on my bookshelf and I'm not 100000% excited for reading them as I thought I was when I heard reviews and stuff. I just like the way they look on my bookshelf. I am gonna read them though. I think I'm glad I'm so busy. Maybe I'll take a break and go back to the time when I didn't read as much. This time,though, I'll still have the books I ordered and I'll definitley appreciate them more as I did when I first got back into reading again :)

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
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    To be honest I first read Harry Potter just so I could say I read it. Since then I've read the whole series again and again, each time picking up on new things or hints. Now I adore the series and keep re-reading it.

    Just go back to the books which you honestly liked, read them. Find somewhere quiet and comfy, just read and relax, forget that you're reading it and become immersed in the plot. I'm sure you will truly get into books soon, you just need one you're really interested in.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    I kind of want to ask... Does it really matter? The main thing is you are reading. Whether you do it for just the book or because you enjoy reviewing it afterwards, I really don't think it matters.

    Students force themselves through books all the time because they have to for their studies. They don't necessarily enjoy them. A lot of these students read them just for exam purposes. They still reap the benefits of reading: expanding their minds, developing their critical sense, improving their vocabulary, grammar skills, their communication, etc...

    There's nothing wrong with reading books you didn't want to read, or forcing yourself through books you don't like or reading a book you were not interested in because it was given out for free. On the contrary, it's a good thing. You're discovering new books, new worlds, new ways of thinking every single time you read a book that was different from what you normally enjoy.

    Saying the only real reason to read is to enjoy it and that doing it for any other reason is doing it for the wrong reasons is denying that books do anything beside entertain.

    I don't think you absolutely need to get out of that compulsive collecting phase. You might need to pause and relax a little because you *could* enjoy them more if you didn't rush yourself so much. But there's no such thing as "reading for the wrong reasons". And you'll reap the benefits of extensive reading no matter what your reasons were.

    And reviewing books is a huge service to humanity. You're bringing new knowledge to the masses every time you do.

  • 5 years ago

    i'm afraid you have it backwards. the everyday clarification for issues is that if we do the incorrect issues for the splendid reasons. Eg. many so-called "humanitarian" initiatives attempt to realize good issues, yet finally end up doing evil. An occasion right that's attempting to alleviate starvation interior the "third international" which outcomes strengthening tyrants and turning out to be super misery between the "helped" human beings. seek for all the nutrition help given to North Korea and Sudan, which outcomes feeding the secret police and slave masters and in uncomplicated terms will advance the misery of the community human beings. Doing the "precise subject for the incorrect reason" is as an occasion a milionaire who builds a lake for his own exhilaration, yet as an ingredient effect creates an irrigation device which advantages ravenous community farmers. helping the farmers became not the point of the action, however the top effect is useful to the entire community

  • 8 years ago

    Never allow yourself to go back on one of these reviewing sites, reread the books one by one, starting with the most intriguing. Tell NO ONE that you read the book. Start reading a genre that you usually don't, follow a series of books, et cetera. Just never review, either you will realise that you just don't enjoy books anymore, or you'll start reading normally again.

    Answer my question please: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AolaT...

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