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Why won't my dad let me watch WWE? How can I convince him to let me watch it?
I want serious answers only, please.
This might be long, but please help me.
I started watching WWE on TV like 9 months ago. I've been watching it way before that on YouTube because I'm worried what my parents will think. I know all about what happened in the Attitude Era until now. I even know some things before the Attitude Era. I know the history, the Superstars (and Divas), the storylines, and almost everything about WWE. I love WWE.
I started watching it on TV 9 months ago when my parents aren't around for about a month or so. Then I was a little more open with watching it with my parents around. My parents usually never paid much attention when I watch it. They would tell me to turn it down or go upstairs and watch it, which I was totally fine with. My dad would try to get me to stop watching it, but I wouldn't. He gave up a few times though. My mom usually wouldn't care. My dad is the one who's like "it's not good for young girls" or "it's violent" and etc.
Tonight, I was watching the WWE Hall of Fame 2013. I really wanted to watch it because Bruno Sammartino, Bob Backlund, Trish Stratus, Mick Foley, and Booker T were getting inducted. I like and respect all of them very much. I saw the first induction (Mick Foley) when my dad was coming home from work so he didn't know I was watching it. My dad got home when they were showing Donald Trump's induction video. He was like "turn it off now!" I tried to tell him that this was special and I really want to see it. But he was like "I don't care! You watch this every night! Turn it off!" I started complaining because I was so mad. I asked him why. He said "it's violent and you shouldn't be watching this!" I told him it was only PG and a lot of kids younger than me watch it. We started going back and forth for a minute or so. Then he said "from now on, you will no longer be able to watch WWE". I got so mad and said "this is what I'm interested in! It's like the only thing I watch on TV!" He said "there are so many nice things to watch, why do you have to watch this ugly thing?" He told me I can change the channel and watch something nice, but I just turned it off and went to my room. I didn't get to watch the Hall of Fame ceremony which I'm so mad and upset about. I'm feel like if I can't watch WWE, then I won't watch TV at all. He's trying to change my interests. But at least I have YouTube to watch WWE.
I don't understand why he thinks WWE is so bad. It's only PG and many kids watch it now.
And can you please tell me a way to convince him to let me watch it?
I also don't know if this should go in the Family catagory or Wrestling catagory.
Thanks so much! Please help me!
2 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
It's hard to give you advice because while you write well you didn't state your age. If you are under 13 you may not be able to convince your father to let you watch, because he'll pull the "dad card". If your family is really religious he may truly object to the violence and may think makes objects out of women (which at one time it did). If you are right around 13 or older then you might have a shot at convincing him to let you watch.
Here is what I advise:
First, think about the reasons he may not want you to watch it (it's violent, it makes objects out women, it models bad behavior, it has a lot of attractive guys who wear very little clothing and "his little girl" is watching that, he might think "it's fake and stupid"). In trying to understand his objections to it you are preparing yourself for a conversation with him about it. Also, think deeply about the reasons you like wrestling.
Second, let it go for a week or two. You're angry and he's angry and if you defy his parental orders now he's likely to become more determined to keep you from watching, so obey him for a few weeks. Also, if he catches you watching wrestling on youtube he'll be angry and might take away your computer.
Third, after it's been a few weeks approach him and simply ask him if you can talk to him. Pick your time wisely and don't interrupt him if he's in the middle of something. If you already do things father/daughter things with him this might be a good time. If you can get him in restaurant or a public place where he'd be embarrassed to just yell at you that's a good idea too. If you don't do father/daughter things with him don't suggest doing one just to bring up the wrestling conversation because it's too manipulative. The point is you need to find a time and place where you can have a conversation. The fact that you are having an engaged, rational conversation is a sign of maturity. If he's reasonable he'll respect you and your views a bit more.
Fourth, let him voice his objections. You do this by setting up the topic and asking an open ended question. Let him know that you've obeyed him but that you'd really like to know specifically what it is about WWE he objects to. Let him talk, don't interrupt, and keep your cool. The most important things are for you NOT to be defiant, not to argue, and not to get emotional. If you do it will be proof to him that you are still too immature to have a serious conversation. If says something like "it's not something girls should be watching," respond with "I understand you believe that, but I don't understand why you believe that, and that's why I wanted to talk with you because it's something I've really enjoyed up to this point." Push him to put his specific objections into words. Once he's done, tell him what it is you like about a WWE and why it's important to you. If you can, respectfully offer some counters to some of his points, and point out some facts that work in WWE's favor: there are no guns or murders in WWE's stories, they run a very active anti-bullying campaign, at this point in time there is almost no mature/adult content in WWE's stories, you may also want to point him to link I've provided.
Five, be prepared to be disappointed. There is a very good chance he'll still say no, and this may have a lot to do with a belief that it's not "normal" for girls to watch wrestling. Stay calm, so that he doesn't pull the "I'm the parent" card. At this point ask him if he would be willing to sit down with you and watch a half hour to an hour of a WWE show with you so that he can "point out some specific objections" and so he "can see the product for what it is currently as opposed to what he thinks it is like." If he agrees to this I suggest you watch Smackdown instead of Raw because it isn't live and it's a tamer show.
If after all of this he still says no, don't let the conversation turn into a fight. Tell him that even though you don't like his decision you still respect and love him, and leave it at that. At this point if you watch it on youtube be very carful you don't get caught. Then bring the conversation up again in a few months, the point again being that it's a mature, grown up conversation.
Good Luck!
- Anonymous5 years ago
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