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Should I let him touch my boobs?
I've been dating my boyfriend for a while now , and he has started asking to touch my boobs.
Although I feel uncomfortable I love him very much , but I'm scared that he will be put off by my boobs. I always wear a push up bra because I'm a C cup and feel really small , I am also really pale and have very pale nipples and my nipples are inverted.
I'm scared that he wont be attracted to me if I let him feel them.
I also have not told him but a few years ago (when I was 13) I was sexually assaulted and have lost all of my confidence when in a relationship encase I end up in the same situation as before.
5 Answers
- 8 years ago
This doesn't need to go anywhere you're not comfortable letting it go. Forget about his feelings, these are yours. It's understandable that you're worried about him not being attracted to you, but if he loses that attraction just because of this then he's a loser.
If you guys have been dating awhile and he cares about you as much as you care about him, I doubt it will be a problem for him at all. Sexual assault can leave some pretty deep scars on someone, so time needs to be taken and there needs to be some real dialogue between you two about it. Tell him all of the stuff you've told us.
Whatever the case, if you're not comfortable letting him touch them then you shouldn't.
Source(s): Being a man. - 8 years ago
Don't let him until your ready and tell him the story about the assault because it is important that he knows do he can understand and help you through it :)
- Anonymous8 years ago
It depends on what you guys' age is right now..
above 16 gives you green
but below 16,then don't let him.
he won't be satisfied by just touching ya.
best of luck!
- 8 years ago
if you are uncomfortable, i would wait. also, if he's not attracted to you after feeling your boobs, he's a scumbag and not worth your time anyway.
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- DanielLv 78 years ago
By letting him feel your breasts you are showing that you trust him and this will actually greatly increase his bond and feelings for/with you. In short: letting him feel your breasts will greatly help your relationship