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How do you deal with masturbation addiction, even if you have a hot girlfriend?
I have a cute girlfriend I've been with for three years, and I love her very much. We have a healthy sex life, we get along, and she does pretty much whatever I want her to do in the sack. I don't sleep with other women, I'm perfectly sane, and we have a good relationship SHe's completely devoted to me. There's a problem, though. I'm an asshole because I'm addicted to pornography and masturbation. Even when I'm getting Grade A fellatio, I think about masturbating. I also think about other women when I do it. I would never act on these impulses outside of masturbating, and I feel disgusted with myself afterwards, but it's still very relieving, and it hurts when I don't do it. Maybe monogamy is just difficult. Think about it, a lot OT heroes had multiple wives and concubines, and God never complained at that time. What should I do to get rid of these urges and thoughts?
Uhhh, Prophet, we live together. lol
9 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
On the positive side, you're having sex with two people you love.
- 8 years ago
You can only serve God or the devil. The lukewarm will be spit out. If you don't want to follow God than continue to have sex with your girlfriend and continue to masturbate. But if you are a child of God and accept Him then you must know that fornication is a sin. If you're having sex with your girlfriend before marriage that's a problem right there and you should also be feeling the guilt of that as well with the masturbation.
And to deal with your masturbation, you must keep your eyes on Jesus. Stop watching porn, cut all your temptations OFF. Pray, seek God. Read your Bible. When you get an urge call out to God. Ask Him to break your heart and ask to be convicted so it will pain you more to commit the sin. Masturbation is a choice, you have control over what you're doing. Choose wisely for eternity sake.
- 8 years ago
Dude pornography is perfectly fine and masturbation too. You would never act on your impulses and the images are just stimulus much like your hand. You are doing nothing wrong its normal just make sure that you tell your partner this so she can understand you better. I'm sure there are some guys that she thinks are Jaw dropping gorgeous but she wouldn't be quick to sleep with em because shes got you.
- 8 years ago
It has nothing to do with God, since he doesn't even exist. Now that that is out of the way, let's move on...
This is natural. You are getting a good sex life (good job btw), and you are having fun. You are satisfied SEXUALLY, but you are still thinking of other girls to ****. It's just natural. Just stay devoted, but if you feel the need to cheat, just make sure you can get away with it. Go ahead and cheat, guilt is for puss!es. She's probably doing the same thing anyway.
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- Anonymous8 years ago
You wont be able to. Masturbation is a must for a men, even when having a Hot Girlfriend!
- Anonymous8 years ago
You should consider not looking at women as if they were tools for sex, if you look at women as human beings and put your family, friends, tasks, work that needs to be done first, first.
I guarantee you, you will not suffer as much.
Look up, not down, you're obviously thinking these thoughts because you allow yourself to.
And if you have to, block the websites.
Oh, and.
Spend more time with HER.
Well then, have sexual intercourse with her, and if you can't then, I think you should try to engage her, offer her a wedding ring, and if she accepts, you get to have intercourse.
- ?Lv 78 years ago
Ask God for the Baptism of the Holy Spirit to overcome sins and masturbation.
Most believers are spiritually dead because they don't have the Holy Spirit of God inside of them. Most churches are full of corpses, full of sinners, people who have never repented of their sins. They haven't been baptized in water in the name of the Lord Jesus and they have never received the Holy Spirit. If you don't have the Spirit of Christ inside of you, you don't have the power to stand against the devil, you don't have life inside of you.
You need to be baptized in the Holy Spirit so that you can have the power of God inside of you. If Jesus does not LIVE inside of you and you are not the light of the world and the salt of the earth then you don't belong to Jesus. You need the Holy Spirit or else you are spiritually dead. You need to REPENT, call on Jesus, plead for forgiveness for your sins, plead for Him to save you and TURN AWAY FROM SIN AND THEN BE BAPTIZED IN WATER SO THAT YOUR SINS CAN BE WASHED OFF so that you can be BAPTIZED INTO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST and you WILL RECEIVE THE BAPTISM IN THE HOLY SPIRIT and you will have the POWER TO WITNESS for Christ, you will become part of the Kingdom of God. If you have not received the baptism in the Holy Spirit you are spiritually DEAD, friend. You NEED THE BAPTISM IN THE HOLY SPIRIT, you need the POWER OF GOD inside you.
The promise is to YOU and to your children and to all of those whom the Lord our God will call unto Himself. Don't let the devil rob you of the POWER THAT GOD HAS PROMISED YOU. Obey Jesus, repent, be baptized in water and you will receive the baptism in the Holy Spirit and the power of God will dwell in you. You will speak in other tongues and Jesus will live inside of you. YOU NEED THE BAPTISM IN THE HOLY SPIRIT.
May Jesus bless you
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