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Is he right or am I? How can I fix this situation?

There's this guy im dating. We're both in 8th grade. We just got together, and we were really good friends before we were a couple. In my P. E. class, there's this girl who's mentally disabled. Recently, she has started getting really clingy, following us around because she has a crush on my boyfriend. She keeps making stuff up, saying that their dating and that my boyfriend likes her back. And he doesn't tell her to go away! I think he's encouraging her because he laughs at her jokes, and nods and listens to her talk garbage. When I confronted him about it, we kinda had a fight. He called me immature for being mean to a mentally disabled ed kid. He said hed never seen this side of me before. What can I say or do to make him not mad at me? And who do you guys think is right, me or him?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Firstly obviously your bf has a very caring and compassionate side and this should be something you see as a quality, it is rare. You are getting jealous but you cant see this girl as a threat. Your boyfriend is being very sweet to this girl and it is most likely making her probably difficult school life alot easier. To make it up try making an effort with this girl, talk to her, involve her in an activity so your bf can see you also have a compassionate side, as this seems an important part of who he is it will make you ever more attractive to him.

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