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superkitty002 asked in PetsCats · 8 years ago

My cat does not like to interact with people at all! What can I do?

I took a young adult female cat (not much over a kitten really) as a favour to a friend in February last year. Her name is Marmite and she is a healthy beautiful cat, she has safe space to play outdoors and lots of nice warm snuggly places to sit inside, she gets fed regularly (with food she likes, and will happily "ask" me for food) and for the most part seems to be a happy cat. She knows that if she miaows at me I will open doors for her etc and I think that she has accepted me as a housemate.

The only issue is in the entire time I have had her she has not once come to me for affection and she bolts whenever anyone walks too near to her or goes to stroke her.

Since she moved in she has grown immensely in confidence. She has gone from lurking in the corner and hiding behind the washing machine all the time to openly walking into the room when I am there, playing furiously with her toys, and openly getting me out of bed on weekends when she feels I have had enough sleep and she is hungry.

However I have not stroked her once in all this time and she runs away if I get too near to her (if she is in her cat bed she usually just gives me a dirty look and sometimes hisses if she feels like I am invading her space).

Is there anything else I can do to Help her feel more confident or is it just a case of some cats are just not that friendly or take a long time to get used to people?

I am not considering getting rid of her in favour of an instant joy kitten, if she is just an anti social cat she is still my Marmite and I will just have to get used to her I suppose...would getting an additional cat help do you think?

Cheers

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    People have this misconception that All cats are friendly and that's not true, Cats are very particular and have their own minds..they unlike dogs,prefer you to go them at times when they are in a friendly mood,however other cats choose to go to you when they are ready..at times cats like their own space and often retreat to be left alone.

    Some cats are clingy and love to be around you,cuddled,stroked and patted,other cats don't like to be held,patted or anything.

    It doesnt mean your cat is unhappy or that she doesn't like people,its just her way different cats have different characters-..she has her own mind ,just be there for her when she needs you and most importantly don't take it personal.

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